Harsh Realities For You Women: Men Are Not Going To Want You,Once You Have Another Man's Kids

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Men are stupid and desperate as fukk. They will wife bytches with multiple kids all the time. One of my best friends did.

My nephew, just got his own apt. Ready to bachelor pad his crib and smash different hoes on a reg, but what does he do not even two months after getting his spot? Moves some very average if not ugly broad into his apartment who already has two kids.

We tried to tell dude but he don't listen..Waste your twenties taking care of single mom's and their children bruhs.

 

[The_Sheff]

Eh, this may be true for a man that doesn't have any kids, but for every woman that's a mother, there is a father...somewhere. People with children don't have limited options, if anything it's people without kids that will have a hard time finding someone that doesn't.

I dont think you quite understand what "limited options" means.

Ive never heard of anyone saying they dont want to date someone without kids, but plenty of people wont date people with kids. Therefore the person with the kids has more limited options because there is a segment on the population of wont fukk with them. Hell there are people with kids who dont want to date other people with kids.

 

[Rawtid]

I dont think you quite understand what "limited options" means.

Ive never heard of anyone saying they dont want to date someone without kids, but plenty of people wont date people with kids. Therefore the person with the kids has more limited options because there is a segment on the population of wont fukk with them. Hell there are people with kids who dont want to date other people with kids.

I understand what limited options means lol

What I'm saying is that for every single mother, there is a single father somewhere and a good number of people have children by a certain age. A person with kids wanting to date someone without kids is just dumb but even if that's the case they would have to find someone willing to date them because they have children.

 

[Bolzmark]

Elaborate.


What's so bad about it?


I had a guy hitting on me who told me he was living with a girl with kids. He sounded like he was miserable. Lol

He asked me my name, and the 2nd question he asked was do I have kids.

I said no, and he looked like he hit the jackpot.


Like, GOD... What's wrong with girls with kids?

1. Her priority(if she is doing it right) will always be the kids.
2. Think about how often there is an issue in relationships when one person stays in contact with an ex. In this situation, it's a MUST. That ex will always have some type of presence in your relationship.
3. And if there is drama between your girl and her ex? Just gonna cause drama for you.
4. These are children. They can be annoying as fukk. You have to deal with that. She is a package deal.
5. Imagine if you can't go out, fukk, or just chill quietly with your girl because some previous nyqqas kids are running around. Your freedom is limited.
6. There could be financial issues, depending on what the baby daddy is doing.
7. Personally, if I ever have kids, I want my first kid to be my wife's first kid. I don't want her on some been there done that.

 

[Scotch Hall]

I had a dude once wish me happy mother's day and when I told him I didn't have kids he was a bit surprised and said something about how I should or some shyt.

You can suplex me any given sunday, vice queen

 

[Vice Queen]

1. Her priority(if she is doing it right) will always be the kids.
2. Think about how often there is an issue in relationships when one person stays in contact with an ex. In this situation, it's a MUST. That ex will always have some type of presence in your relationship.
3. And if there is drama between your girl and her ex? Just gonna cause drama for you.
4. These are children. They can be annoying as fukk. You have to deal with that. She is a package deal.
5. Imagine if you can't go out, fukk, or just chill quietly with your girl because some previous nyqqas kids are running around. Your freedom is limited.
6. There could be financial issues, depending on what the baby daddy is doing.
7. Personally, if I ever have kids, I want my first kid to be my wife's first kid. I don't want her on some been there done that.

This is the most thought out answer I've seen.

Add on to the fact that you really can't tell another person's kids what to do. The kids curse you out, you can't discipline them, you ain't they daddy.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I wouldn't do it.

 

[MikelArteta]

EVERYONE HAS OPTIONS, even single moms, but it doesn't mean its good options.

more than likely its a nikka who they would have never looked in his direction if they were childless.

and thees a big difference between casual dating, and getting your dikk sucked, and walking down the aisle

 

[MikelArteta]

If your 35+ you really have no choice but to mess with women with kids

wrong
there are more childless women of every demographic than ever before

 

[MikelArteta]

its always funny how dudes will bring up but my friend, but my sister but my cousin

nikkaz overall the average single mother is not or will never walk down the aisle and get the whie picket fence

 

[InDePickWest]

Men are stupid and desperate as fukk. They will wife bytches with multiple kids all the time. One of my best friends did.

My nephew, just got his own apt. Ready to bachelor pad his crib and smash different hoes on a reg, but what does he do not even two months after getting his spot? Moves some very average if not ugly broad into his apartment who already has two kids.

We tried to tell dude but he don't listen..Waste your twenties taking care of single mom's and their children bruhs.

So youd rather he smash and give his body away to different women than to be with a woman that he loves and obviously likes?

Coli men are serious idiots.

 

[InDePickWest]

Coli men are beta af. All the dudes complaining about single mothers are only doing so because those are the women that passed him up, and he thinks her having a kid now means he is elevated above her.

In real life, single moms with kids are STILL not checking for broke lames. Even now they got seeds.

p*ssy will ALWAYS win because most men can have it all but w/o p*ssy, will be miserable. Its the reason a bytch that lived in her parents spare room fukked Tiger Woods, a man worth 300 million dollars. The reason a bytch thats broke w/no job could fukk Chris Brown and get 20k a month from it. The reason why chicks fukk Drake once and get a monthly allowance and dont gotta work no more. And these aint even dimes, just average women with p*ssy.

p*ssy is p*ssy at the end of the day to most men, yall can cross ya fingers and hope it changes, but its not. p*ssy still reigns. Just look at all yal topics compared to LSA topics. All yall about women, all theirs are about various topics.

dikk can have millions and p*ssy can have negative and bytches will stop come out on top.

Why? Cuz most men are idiots.

Single moms have vagina. Which means theres no shortage of men to fukk if she walks out the door , and if she wants a relationship..she can put some time and thirst traps out there and find a guy..he might not be handsome or rich but she can find a nikka. No nikka turning down a woman that aint an ogre.

Geez, go outside

 

[MikelArteta]

Coli men are beta af. All the dudes complaining about single mothers are only doing so because those are the women that passed him up, and he thinks her having a kid now means he is elevated above her.

In real life, single moms with kids are STILL not checking for broke lames. Even now they got seeds.

p*ssy will ALWAYS win because most men can have it all but w/o p*ssy, will be miserable. Its the reason a bytch that lived in her parents spare room fukked Tiger Woods, a man worth 300 million dollars. The reason a bytch thats broke w/no job could fukk Chris Brown and get 20k a month from it. The reason why chicks fukk Drake once and get a monthly allowance and dont gotta work no more. And these aint even dimes, just average women with p*ssy.

p*ssy is p*ssy at the end of the day to most men, yall can cross ya fingers and hope it changes, but its not. p*ssy still reigns. Just look at all yal topics compared to LSA topics. All yall about women, all theirs are about various topics.

dikk can have millions and p*ssy can have negative and bytches will stop come out on top.

Why? Cuz most men are idiots.

Single moms have vagina. Which means theres no shortage of men to fukk if she walks out the door , and if she wants a relationship..she can put some time and thirst traps out there and find a guy..he might not be handsome or rich but she can find a nikka. No nikka turning down a woman that aint an ogre.

Geez, go outside

keep living in a fantasy world

 

[Medicate]

Coli men are beta af. All the dudes complaining about single mothers are only doing so because those are the women that passed him up, and he thinks her having a kid now means he is elevated above her.

In real life, single moms with kids are STILL not checking for broke lames. Even now they got seeds.

p*ssy will ALWAYS win because most men can have it all but w/o p*ssy, will be miserable. Its the reason a bytch that lived in her parents spare room fukked Tiger Woods, a man worth 300 million dollars. The reason a bytch thats broke w/no job could fukk Chris Brown and get 20k a month from it. The reason why chicks fukk Drake once and get a monthly allowance and dont gotta work no more. And these aint even dimes, just average women with p*ssy.

p*ssy is p*ssy at the end of the day to most men, yall can cross ya fingers and hope it changes, but its not. p*ssy still reigns. Just look at all yal topics compared to LSA topics. All yall about women, all theirs are about various topics.

dikk can have millions and p*ssy can have negative and bytches will stop come out on top.

Why? Cuz most men are idiots.

Single moms have vagina. Which means theres no shortage of men to fukk if she walks out the door , and if she wants a relationship..she can put some time and thirst traps out there and find a guy..he might not be handsome or rich but she can find a nikka. No nikka turning down a woman that aint an ogre.

Geez, go outside

Tiger Woods was fckin with PAWG broke bytches who raped his pockets, because he was a self hating half breed, who got his "black" wake up call...

I have no idea why this shyt is complicated with this thread. No man should have to raise another man's seeds, that is the original brehs responsibility, unless there is extenuating circumstances....i.e death, then the story is quite different. For some damn reason you current generation females and simps see no problem with this stepdad/stepmom syndrome where you are getting in where you fit in, which "fitting in" usually is not the right fit.

When we were more of a community/village type of culture, where it took a village to raise a child, and whoredom and pimping were not common and cool and money and other trivial western minded BS wasn't the core principles for people, then sure this could be accepted, and even then, women were not spreading their ass around and having different fathers and husbands and different seeds from each spread all over.....

You women are brainwashed and simps brainwashed into accepting this nonsense as an excuse for your whorish and pimpin behaviors which has caused the destruction of the Black family unit. This was the main purpose of my thread and you proved my point with this ass post..........

 

[TheArchitect]

I understand shyt happens but dating single moms comes with a lot of baggage a lot of dudes really don't want to deal with myself included.

-BRB, just had an argument because you feel your girl is texting her baby daddy too much. There are some girls who smash ther BD on the DL because they don't consider it "cheating" per se.
Dealt with it. We had a short "break-up" (about a couple DAYS), and she went right back to go fukk with her BD. But like an idiot, I took her back after she claimed she would never interact with him again...
-BRB, the kid doesn't respect you because "YOU AREN'T MY REAL DADDY!"
-BRB, the woman wants a serious relationship from the jump, you just can't "date" like in a normal relationship.
Dealt with it. She insisted on it. I should of declined.....
-BRB, having to explain to your folks that your girl already has a seed by another dude.
Yeah...They didn't seem to have a problem with it, but I won't be doing that again unless her kids are GROWN. Even that is a huge MAYBE...
-BRB, having to deal with the issues from the previous relationship like abandonment, cheating, etc because the dude before you who knocked her up was a straight up fukkboi.
Dealt with it. She complained about being constantly cheated on and belittled. Soon after i found out firsthand why...
-BRB, have to pay for babysitters whenever you want to do anything with your girl.
-BRB, the girl is obviously going to put her child before you and the relationship making developing a relationship difficult. If she doesn't put her child before you then she's probably a shytty mom you shouldn't be dating first to begin with.
Dealt with it. HUGE bummer, as a single man with no kids. Not doing that again....
-BRB, having to see the baby daddy on a regular basis because he is a straight fukkboi but he still has custody rights.
-BRB, having to hear your girl complain to you because her baby daddy doesn't like/want to pay child support because he's a manchild.
-BRB, having to keep a good relationship with the kid ON TOP of trying to date the single mom.
-BRB, breakups are a pain in the ass because she will guilt trip you over the fact that she will have to go back to being an overworked single mother.

She would have to be pretty special for me to date her being a single mom but I personally wouldn't. Especially now that I am barely in my mid 20s and I have to worry about holding myself down and getting my shyt together. I'm trying to retire at 64 a millionaire with a house fully paid off and I have to worry about my savings accounts.