#HandsomeGang or HVM how do you stay faithful in your relationship?

[Mr. Negative]

my ego/thoughts of male masculinity arent tied to my dikk.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Money ain’t everything, happiness and time you can’t get back.

as for the OP, I advise any man to just be open and honest to their chick. If she don’t want to deal with you fukking with other chicks then that’s her decision to make. Move on to one that will.

It's just that simple. These dudes talking about multi wives, but don't bring up 1)child support, 2)Women not having other pretty nikkas in que, 3)having to deal with drama of 2+ women in the same household. I know nikkas that's paying for 3 and 4 kids, Child Support reaching in they pockets, "What you got on my forty" Debo style

The coli gone coli though

 

[number21]

What does this have to do with side p*ssy? God isn’t advocating side p*ssy, he’s saying that if you choose to marry two women and live a polygamist life style then you can’t deprive your first wife.

Are you saying that men should marry their side p*ssy to accommodate the Bible’s word?

You ever heard of something called a concubine? King Solomon had about 300 of them.

I brought out that verse to prove that he doesn't have any problem with a man having more than one woman.

Try again breh.

 

[HarlemHottie]

That doesn't seem realistic to me. I know aunts, uncles , fathers and grandfathers that weren't able to attain that level of discipline

All i know is what goes on at my house. It'll be 20 yrs in Feb, no fukking around, no outside kids, no dumb shyt. Time accounted for, phones unlocked, he works from home and i stay at home.

It happens.

 

[BornStar]

So high value men and high value women shouldn’t be held to the same standards of faithfulness?

Men and women have different motivations for cheating. A man cheats for ego, a woman cheats for emo.

 

[BornStar]

All i know is what goes on at my house. It'll be 20 yrs in Feb, no fukking around, no outside kids, no dumb shyt. Time accounted for, phones unlocked, he works from home and i stay at home.

It happens.

Rarely
I'm sure you would agree in your case you are an outlier. Im almost certain most of your friends and family complain to you about their fukkery in their relationship.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You and those women questioning the gospel should holler at God.

I meanwhile will follow the Bible and live according to its word

Child Support don't care about the bible. And other pretty nikkas don't care about your wives being married Go ahead and have a couple more kids by some side pieces, see how long you last

You want polygamy betta move yo ass to a Mormon state, or better yet some Islamic country.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Rarely
I'm sure you would agree in your case you are an outlier. Im almost certain most of your friends and family complain to you about their fukkery in their relationship.

Hm. No, actually. Out of my two closest friends, both are in happy, stable relationships with black men. Same for my wider group of friends (not acquaintances), now that i think about it.

But i keep my circle tight for a reason, ofc. I don't be around messy ppl.

 

[Draje]

You ever heard of something called a concubine? King Solomon had about 300 of them.

I brought out that verse to prove that he doesn't have any problem with a man having more than one woman.

Try again breh.

God allows for free will and it doesn’t mean he wants you to have concubines. Show me a verse that says he’s ok with a husband cheating on his wife.

14 “When you come to the land that the Lordyour God is giving you, and you possess it and dwell in it and then say, z‘I will set a king over me, like all the nations that are around me,’ awhom the Lord your God will choose. One bfrom among your brothers you shall set as king over you. You may not put a foreigner over you, who is not your brother. chorses for himself or cause the people dto return to Egypt in order to acquire many horses, since the Lord has said to you, e‘You shall never return that way again.’ fshall not acquire many wives for himself, lest his heart turn away, gnor shall he acquire for himself excessive silver and go.

Solomon was able to take multiple wives despite God saying that it was something he shouldn’t do and God “allowed” him to do it even though it was against his word.

Next.

 

[HARLEM AL]

It's just that simple. These dudes talking about multi wives, but don't bring up 1)child support, 2)Women not having other pretty nikkas in que, 3)having to deal with drama of 2+ women in the same household. I know nikkas that's paying for 3 and 4 kids, Child Support reaching in they pockets, "What you got on my forty" Debo style

The coli gone coli though

Lmfaooo

 

[Draje]

Men and women have different motivations for cheating. A man cheats for ego, a woman cheats for emo.

So you’d be ok if a woman cheated for ego only?

And how does this make it acceptable or better if you cheat for “ego” vs “emo”?

 

[Crude]

Short term gratification vs long term consequences

This!!!

I could be running up in some new strange every night, but that is just a short term fix. Not to mention possibility of getting some idiot pregnant, catching something, or having her so mentally attached to me that it causes undue headache and drama.

As you get older and start dealing with real shyt in life like illness, the death of loved ones, drama with people, drama on your job, and aging, it helps to have someone of substance in your corner.

 

[Draje]

You ever heard of something called a concubine? King Solomon had about 300 of them.

I brought out that verse to prove that he doesn't have any problem with a man having more than one woman.

Try again breh.

It’s weird how you’re trying to use Solomon when he admitted that amassing wives and concubines was the wrong move and he wasn’t following the will of God in the book of Ecclesiastes.

So show me the Bible verses you’re talking about.

 

[BornStar]

So you’d be ok if a woman cheated for ego only?

And how does this make it acceptable or better if you cheat for “ego” vs “emo”?

One isn't better than the other however
If you treat a woman like a queen , give her attention, provide and fukk her she won't be inspired to cheat.

 

[number21]

It’s weird how you’re trying to use Solomon when he admitted that amassing wives and concubines was the wrong move and he wasn’t following the will of God in the book of Ecclesiastes.

So show me the Bible verses you’re talking about.

Yeah because he allowed the women he had lead him to was following other gods. Which is not following the will of the most high. Not the fact he had too much women.

1 Kings 11 1:13 clearly states that breh.

"King Solomon, however, loved many foreign women besides Pharaoh’s daughter—Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians and Hittites. 2 They were from nations about which the Lord had told the Israelites, “You must not intermarry with them, because they will surely turn your hearts after their gods.” Nevertheless, Solomon held fast to them in love. 3 He had seven hundred wives of royal birth and three hundred concubines, and his wives led him astray. 4 As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been. 5 He followed Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and Molek the detestable god of the Ammonites. 6 So Solomon did evil in the eyes of the Lord; he did not follow the Lord completely, as David his father had done.

7 On a hill east of Jerusalem, Solomon built a high place for Chemosh the detestable god of Moab, and for Molek the detestable god of the Ammonites. 8 He did the same for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and offered sacrifices to their gods.

9 The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned away from the Lord, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice. 10 Although he had forbidden Solomon to follow other gods, Solomon did not keep the Lord’s command. 11 So the Lord said to Solomon, “Since this is your attitude and you have not kept my covenant and my decrees, which I commanded you, I will most certainly tear the kingdom away from you and give it to one of your subordinates. 12 Nevertheless, for the sake of David your father, I will not do it during your lifetime. I will tear it out of the hand of your son. 13 Yet I will not tear the whole kingdom from him, but will give him one tribe for the sake of David my servant and for the sake of Jerusalem, which I have chosen."