#HandsomeGang or HVM how do you stay faithful in your relationship?

[Yo Mama]

@number21 you consider not living according to antiquated sexist "religious babble" an agenda?


People also claim through the bible that its Gods will that white people should enslave black people...

So is wanting human/civil rights an "agenda"?

SMH.


To keep the thread on track. I will say it again. Faithfulness has nothing to do with looks but with an individuals personality (Male/female).

Lots of "LOW VALUE" #uglygang brehs that cheat.

Thats why I always say give me a pretty man with a hot body coz if he is going to make you unhappy he might as well be eye candy while he is at it. I think his ugliness would make it so much worse.

 

[King Poetic]

To be honest with you

only reason many stay faithful is because homies Are in their 40s now and tired of the emotional games

 

[number21]

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Get help.

 

[Saltmoney]

Thats why I always say give me a pretty man with a hot body coz if he is going to make you unhappy he might as well be eye candy while he is at it. I think his ugliness would make it so much worse.

 

[Yo Mama]

Get help.

 

[Gold]

Simple. Cheaper to keep her. I’ve seen the financial and mental headache of dealing with the wrong woman.

if you find a solid chick, keep her and make it work. You don’t want to be a grown man crying in court.

Also California has the worst child support and spousal laws.

Fax.

Aint a WAP in the world worth a divorce









shyt... aint a WAP in the world worth $500

 

[Yo Mama]

Seriously though. Relationshis are dramatic. Why would you be with a "4" and go through all that drama.

The coli says you shouldn't date a woman below an 8. The same should apply for coli ladies.

I have felt, long before posting on the coli, that people are shyty so you might as well get a physically attractive person. Coz personalities are too unstable and easily faked.

None of that its whats on the inside that counts nonsense.



@number21 thats whyy even have "handsomegang" and and threads like these coz these men dont want to ugly if they can help it. "Hit the gym" "fix your hair line" "dress better" "get a hair transplant" Can't make yourself taller or prettier though... "Beard fish"....

I will remain shallow till the bitter end. Not looking a poor ugly and get drama man.

 

[Umoja]

Avoid certain situations and set boundaries.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Short term gratification vs long term consequences

 

[newworldafro]

Read the bible and you will understand.

Cite the passage, breh.

Spoiler

Remember to vote #TeamLegalizedBigamy2020

 

[Uitomy]

Not my place to say if I truly belong to any of those groups, but almost any man could cheat if he really wanted to. For me, probably the main reason I remain faithful is because of my own pride and ego. Plus there's really no upside to cheating, only things like babies, STI's, divorce. Furthermore, I just don't trust people like that. I'm not rich, but I could certainly see how some may see my situation as some kind of opportunity.

Also it helps if you're truly physically attracted to your wife in the same way you may be attracted to someone else. I look at my wife the same way many people here look at the IG "models" and women used as profile pictures.

The attraction is such a key factor
I feel the same way about my fiance, she is nowhere near the thickest girl I've met, but she's fit and slim and feels like the finest girl I've ever met and because she's mine I can turn my impulse control off and I have to touch her and feel her and look at her

Most people out of shape these days, I'm pretty sure a lot of marriages would work out if both partners tried to maintain good shape

 

[number21]

Cite the passage, breh.

Spoiler

Remember to vote #TeamLegalizedBigamy2020

Exodus 21:10

"If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights."

 

[newworldafro]

It's more evidence in the scriptures that a man can have more than one woman vs only one.

The 10th commandment is talking about your property. Your wife was your property back then not your equal.

Edit:
Regarding 1 Timothy 3:2 when you did services for the church it was best to only have one woman. Your life gets more complicated every woman you add, they need attention. How are you going to run a church if you have to watch over a large household of women?

2 Samuel 12
7And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul; 8And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things. 9

Here it says God gave David wives plural.

I'm a "Davidian" then

No "Branch" though

 

[HARLEM AL]

Simple. Cheaper to keep her. I’ve seen the financial and mental headache of dealing with the wrong woman.

if you find a solid chick, keep her and make it work. You don’t want to be a grown man crying in court.

Also California has the worst child support and spousal laws.

Money ain’t everything, happiness and time you can’t get back.

as for the OP, I advise any man to just be open and honest to their chick. If she don’t want to deal with you fukking with other chicks then that’s her decision to make. Move on to one that will.

 

[Elle Driver]

Most relationships these days are lucky to get to the seven-year mark.

Forget about any of our gen reaching a 40 yr anniversary.

Sad to say.

That’s western standards.