Guy goes viral for saying he’s not taking a Chicago Woman to dinner

[The Realist Perspective]

Women are terrible at expressing what women actually want. You ever asked a chick to pick a place to eat?

"I don't know. You chose."

Women are the last people who you should ask on how to attract women. You let most women tell it they want a dude like Will Smith who doesnt cuss in his songs but it's dude who puts out hit em up that makes their p*ssy juices flow.

The people who actually do the women attracting would know what woman actually want.

we’re not talking about what is attractive to a woman we’re talking about a woman speaking on how other women move. Most of them aren’t on a cock rotation.

 

[Knowledge]

My first time seeing this thread but why is it always some big news when men treat women the way women been treating men for ages. Women have standards and deny or play men and they be like yaassss . A man use women for food, money, or sex and the world is

And on that note, ive had countless women in the past where i just asked what they drinking on a dating app and i was at they place the same night smashing....sometimes raw. I was young n reckless

 

[kaldurahm]

You buy gifts for every girl you go on a date with?

fukk wrong with you nikkas?

Not every woman, only the last girl cause it was her b-day and nobody got her anything (she's doesn't have anybody like that) she made me dinner the next time and we hooked up.

The point I'm making, is that you don't have to spend much but at least spend a little bit. I can't do coffee dates because I think that shyt is boring as fukk, and like I said I don't got a mouthpiece like that. Realistically, I spent $10 on the indoor plant, $20 for art gallery, $40 on Thai food ($25 on myself, $15 for her). Total is $70 for the date, it's not bad especially considering I go on maybe 2 dates a month and I see it as a break from work.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

This isn’t true !!!!


Got damm there is so much more shìt to do !!!!!


I’ve gone glass blowing it was free u pay for what you make . The items we picked out were $45.

I went candle making which was $40.


There are jazz spots in your city .


So many dope restaurants and stuff just look !!!


shyt go to a dope ramen spot !!! Good food , cheap and not your every day type restaurant .


Find a cooking class too those can range from decent to expensive so just do your research .


Edit *

I took a chick to pick sunflowers and she had an amazing time !!!!!! That cost me $30 then she bought the pizza and drinks when we went .


I didn’t give about them sunflowers but guess what she had an amazing time . I said this is all for you !!!



Also I’m looking at one of those classes that make liquor . It’s something different imma do of I have time .


Sumer is upon us winery dates y’all gotta stop with the steak house dates all day .

 

[ThiefyPoo]

why do nikkas keep whining and complaining about not paying for dates instead of just doing shyt IN THEIR BUDGET?!? No one told you to take a bytch to a steakhouse. Pizza followed by happy hour drinks at a dive bar might run you $30 max. hell, skip the dive bar. Get a slice of pizza each, Walk in the park and grab ice cream after. Congrats, you just spent $15 max and she had a blast. And this is NYC prices. Y’all in cheaper states should have it easier than that.

nikkas want p*ssy to be 100% free or something.

I see more nikkas complaining about paying for dates than I do nikkas complaining about nikkas tricking on onlyfans bytches make it make sense.

Ice cream date is the biggest cheat code ever .


The only thing is you can’t plan it .


Just ask shawty what she’s doing and go scoop her . Go get ice cream sit down and talk .


Try to go to a different Kinda of ice cream spot something on ig lol .


You will still spend $20 lol .

 

[kaldurahm]

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

Maybe it's because I'm a younger breh, but I never start off with food. I suggest an activity first; bowling, roller blading, rock climbing, art gallery, conservatory. This is cheap stuff, sometimes even free. Afterwards go get some burritos, Thai, Jamaican food. Never been to no 4/5 star restaurant on a date, ladies know what type of nikka I am.

Most importantly, I'm not going in with an attitude looking to smash, I just want to have a good time. If I smash cool, but even if I don't smash day 1 it's not a failure. A week later they'll call me over watch movie, drink, make me dinner and we hook up. Sometimes you gotta be a bit patient.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Maybe it's because I'm a younger breh, but I never start off with food. I suggest an activity first; bowling, roller blading, rock climbing, art gallery, conservatory. This is cheap stuff, sometimes even free. Afterwards go get some burritos, Thai, Jamaican food. Never been to no 4/5 star restaurant on a date, ladies know what type of nikka I am.

We gotta make a date night thread for these folks .

 

[Koli_Kat]

So if a broad doesn’t like pizza and doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she just met, you think the only two options are inviting her over to your crib or an expensive restaurant date?


You’re inventing you’re own imaginary limitations. Of course a chick who doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she doesn’t know in public isn’t going to feel comfortable going that man’s house alone, so thanks to the limited options YOU put on the table that would only leave an expensive meal.

You took two concrete examples and created an abstract reality out of them.

My point was women will circumvent a cheap date when a guy doesn't make a p*ssy "tingle" and she feels he has to prove himself to her.Versus a guy she really likes.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Maybe it's because I'm a younger breh, but I never start off with food. I suggest an activity first; bowling, roller blading, rock climbing, art gallery, conservatory. This is cheap stuff, sometimes even free. Afterwards go get some burritos, Thai, Jamaican food. Never been to no 4/5 star restaurant on a date, ladies know what type of nikka I am.

Most importantly, I'm not going in with an attitude looking to smash, I just want to have a good time. If I smash cool, but even if I don't smash day 1 it's not a failure. A week later they'll call me over watch movie, drink, make me dinner and we hook up. Sometimes you gotta be a bit patient.

Really any activity is a good activity.... If a chick really feeling you y'all can chill in the whip - and you'll smash.

It's just men need to realize once you have to plan a date, you pretty much lost your upper hand.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Ice cream date is the biggest cheat code ever .


The only thing is you can’t plan it .


Just ask shawty what she’s doing and go scoop her . Go get ice cream sit down and talk .


Try to go to a different Kinda of ice cream spot something on ig lol .


You will still spend $20 lol .

and that’s cheap

any nikka that has a problem spending a simple $20 on adate (and half that is on yourself not just her) is mad at the world or broke.

nikkas taking this red pill shyt too far to their own detriment. But like I said before. Personally I’m iight with it cause if dudes won’t even spend $20 it makes the kill easier for nikkas like me when I do basic shyt like ice cream. bytches think you gave them the world

 

[tuckgod]

What higher caliber woman is coming over to a nikka house first date?

You’d be surprised

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

If she shoots down two of my suggestions and doesn’t offer her own those options sure are limited because I’m at the end. I’m not pulling out the rolodex for a random

Never suggested that you should. Just pointed out that you’re not left with just two options (come to my place or an expensive meal) as breh suggested. Ending the pursuit is a 3rd option. There are many more.

You took two concrete examples and created an abstract reality out of them.

My point was women will circumvent a cheap date when a guy doesn't make a p*ssy "tingle" and she feels he has to prove himself to her.Versus a guy she really likes.

Breh, I responded directly to what you actually said. I didn’t “create an abstract reality”.

 

[kaldurahm]

People hate nuance

That's how I see it, when it comes to dating nowadays. I think everyone is spitting truths but not taken into account that different shyt works for different people.

No doubt I know there's brehs that drop panties off bad jawns without spending a dime, I know some fellas like this they just have a gift for gab. Some are 6 figure brehs, some of them are bums.

Some other folks secure a deal of dates, you don't have to spend much really, but some people are interpreting the $50 you spent on a date as tricking. Nah fam, it's not tricking, tricking is when you buy them purses, shoes, dresses, taking them out on trips, expensive restaurants. I mean shyt some people got it like that, some don't . Some people date for weeks, and spend hundreds to get what they want, some people take an hour and spend $20 and get what they want.

You win some, you lose some. Life isn't fair. I'm just worried about the guys that take this shyt too far, and in turn hurting themselves when it comes to being successful with women.

 

[Koli_Kat]

and that’s cheap

any nikka that has a problem spending a simple $20 on adate (and half that is on yourself not just her) is mad at the world or broke.

nikkas taking this red pill shyt too far to their own detriment. But like I said before. Personally I’m iight with it cause if dudes won’t even spend $20 it makes the kill easier for nikkas like me when I do basic shyt like ice cream. bytches think you gave them the world

What you have to understand is handsome gang plays by a different set of rules.

The guys you see complaining about dinner dates get rejected by women for cheaper dates bc there's not enough raw attraction for a women to come out for that, they have to compensate.

"Let's go for a walk in the park"

"I have really bad allergies"


"Ok, Let's just just go get ice cream"

"I'm really trying to stay away from sweets right now"

 

[Umoja]

I disagree with most of the responses.

I wouldn't expect a woman to go to a man's house for the first date unless they knew each other already.

You're dealing with a stranger. We also live in a world where a lot of people will make assumptions based on her stepping into in his crib.

That being said, I cannot agree with the sense of entitlement to a free meal some of then are running with. Easiest way to settle thing is offering to pay for your own meal.