Guy goes viral for saying he’s not taking a Chicago Woman to dinner

[Koli_Kat]

why do nikkas keep whining and complaining about not paying for dates instead of just doing shyt IN THEIR BUDGET?!? No one told you to take a bytch to a steakhouse. Pizza followed by happy hour drinks at a dive bar might run you $30 max. hell, skip the dive bar. Get a slice of pizza each, Walk in the park and grab ice cream after. Congrats, you just spent $15 max and she had a blast. And this is NYC prices. Y’all in cheaper states should have it easier than that.

nikkas want p*ssy to be 100% free or something.

I see more nikkas complaining about paying for dates than I do nikkas complaining about nikkas tricking on onlyfans bytches make it make sense.

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

all these dudes be just making up sh*t lmfao

imo dudes would be better off not wasting time with chicks who aint choosing. All that proving yourself to a woman is idiotic and is usually how dudes get caught up in nonsense.

but when dudes just blindly give out that “man just go get coffee” they are talking out their ass/from a place of no experience.

you deal with chicks who are choosing, and only
Deal with them on your terms (she a grown ass woman so if its really that serious then she can take initiative otherwise we doing what i want to do), THEN that other stuff works.

 

[Dr. Acula]

see now I think about it you were one of the brehs funny with the gender pronouns calling men as her and shyt.

this breh really said…I’m believing a dude on the internet, over an actual woman.
That’s why men be losing. They try to get game from their boys rather than girls trynna actually put y’all he man woman hater club ass members on.

Women are terrible at expressing what women actually want. You ever asked a chick to pick a place to eat?

"I don't know. You chose."

Women are the last people who you should ask on how to attract women. You let most women tell it they want a dude like Will Smith who doesnt cuss in his songs but it's dude who puts out hit em up that makes their p*ssy juices flow.

The people who actually do the women attracting would know what woman actually want.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

oh yeah you'd be a fool to go along with that. There’s levels to the fukkery. If she’s not down with your plans and you’re the one paying. BUSH! I got a similar story for this too.

Told a chic we were going for drinks and a bowl of fries (her profile mentioned she loved fries) so I found a spot with. I hit her with a spot early maybe 4 hours before we were suppose to meet that day.

Tell me why this bytch Gon respond "oh this spot ain't gonna work, I'm pescatarian lol “

me”we said fries and drinks, this spot has it”

her “I’ve been at work all day. I need more than fries lol”

Left that on read. never responded. Hours later she hits me with “actually I can’t meet today. Have a good day”

Broad knew we were never meeting after that. She just had to save face with the last response.

If you don’t get a message that’s a message

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Bc that's not how it usually works

"Lets get pizza"

"I'm lactose intolerant"


Uhh ok, "Let's have a grab a few drinks"

"I don't drink with men I just met


From there on you got two options. You either tell her just come over and find out if she really feeling you or not, or waste money and some expensive restaurant like some fukkin loser

So if a broad doesn’t like pizza and doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she just met, you think the only two options are inviting her over to your crib or an expensive restaurant date?


You’re inventing you’re own imaginary limitations. Of course a chick who doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she doesn’t know in public isn’t going to feel comfortable going that man’s house alone, so thanks to the limited options YOU put on the table that would only leave an expensive meal.

 

[havoc]

Y’all nikkas hella weird. It’s like y’all sexually repressed, see how easy men throw dikk at women, and assume if you were a woman you would be fukkin randoms all the time.

A lot of women are not out here fukking like that. And the truth is most of y’all don’t really look like much, and even more of y’all can not fukk good. dikk is not p*ssy. It can’t just sit there and look pretty to make me cum.

You think women running thru men, when most of us running thru batteries.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

So many flaws in your argument, breh. Firstly, you never invite a girl to your crib on a first date. Secondly, you make it seem like most women are demanding that men spend hundreds of dollars on a first date. If you cannot afford to date, you should not be dating.

I’m not advising anyone to invite a stranger to one’s home but women lack logic and reason with men they are sexually attracted to. It is what it is. If it’s a woman you want to just smash, just throw the Hail Mary and see what happens. She’s done it before. The amount of money doesn’t matter, I don’t recommend a man spending money on a woman he’s not trying to be serious with. Maybe a relationship forms out of that.

 

[Blackrogue]

I think y'all need to be realistic and realize women want security. Some over play it and are thirsty for money and using people and there you just say no. But if you asking a woman out because you are interested in her... What's wrong with paying for a meal to have that opportunity to vet her? This is how life works.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I think y'all need to be realistic and realize women want security. Some over play it and are thirsty for money and using people and there you just say no. But if you asking a woman out because you are interested in her... What's wrong with paying for a meal to have that opportunity to vet her? This is how life works.

Women fukk for free all the time

 

[Blackrogue]

Women fukk for free all the time

And some don't. So you messaging to this woman that you want to fukk for free. Come over to my place. If she does shes a low quality woman not worth the relationship. And if she doesn't you lost one. This nikka signalling he's into low value women

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

And some don't. So you messaging to this woman that you want to fukk for free. Come over to my place. If she does shes a low quality woman not worth the relationship. And if she doesn't you lost one. This nikka signalling he's into low value women

High quality women fukk for free too

 

[L&HH]

Mess with higher caliber women, breh.

What higher caliber woman is coming over to a nikka house first date?

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

How does this disprove my comment? Was your auntie very sexually attracted to him?

If the point is about dudes spending money on women, then of course some still do. Not an absolute science but there is a culture shift happening.

It’s an example of it happening lol.

Ain’t no culture shift happening either it’s mainstream for nikkas to casually trick on bytches…how many rap songs you got in rotation where the nikka says some shyt like “I spent a check on that p*ssy” like he cool as shyt Think about all the scammers on social media that spend tons of cash on their bytch Future, the HOH gawd, be talking about how much bread he throws hoes


The culture is enabling that trick shyt, play dumb if you want to

There is a culture shift happening, you guys are just describing what’s happening at different ends of the spectrum. Tricking is at an all time high. There are more sugar daddy/baby relationships now than ever. Even virtual ones with the onlyfans wave. That used to be reserved for multi millionaires, now much poorer men are engaging in these activities.

On the flip side, the guys just looking for regular relationships or looking to smash are becoming less willing to court broads with cash. Back in the day, men would pay for a night out and even buy gifts for broads they didn’t know just off what could be. Nowadays, regular guys are more likely to be more discerning about how they spend on broads who haven’t shown that they’re worth spending on. And despite what some (mainly chicks) like to say, it’s not cuz dudes are broke. They have just been burnt too many times and realize there’s no good reason to invest so much so early on a broad who isn’t invested in you (and I’m not even talking about financial investments; they’re not even emotionally invested in exploring the potentials of the relationship).

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

What higher caliber woman is coming over to a nikka house first date?

No matter the circumstances, you shouldn’t have to worry about a woman robbing you or having you robbed.

 

[Blackrogue]

High quality women fukk for free too

So you basically just trying to get the type of woman that has no value and wants to fukk for free

 

[dh86]

So if a broad doesn’t like pizza and doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she just met, you think the only two options are inviting her over to your crib or an expensive restaurant date?


You’re inventing you’re own imaginary limitations. Of course a chick who doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with a man she doesn’t know in public isn’t going to feel comfortable going that man’s house alone, so thanks to the limited options YOU put on the table that would only leave an expensive meal.

If she shoots down two of my suggestions and doesn’t offer her own those options sure are limited because I’m at the end. I’m not pulling out the rolodex for a random