Listen,as a proud AAdos,understand there is nothing in existence someone from an outside group, especially one who's livelihood, if not survival has depended upon my ppl's good will,and generosity, can do to shame me!
What is 'shameful' however is the blatant entitlement those like look you seem to wield over AAdos,especially with rather gross ideas like:
AAdos be the only group world not able to exercise agency over determining agenda, independent of all else,
AAdos being the only group in the world to rubber stamp any, and all ppl on the sole basis of race, w/o question,and ability to first vet and discern intent.
AAdos community not possess right to have needs addressed and placed first; only acting in ways that are advantageous to others, even if proven to detrimental, and or non-beneficial.
AAdos community, notwithstanding all it has done,by proving in showing help to others, have loyalty questioned around every turn, condescended to, worst--lambasted with ugly terms, and profoundly historically inaccurate accusations of: xenophobia, divisiveness, being hate-filled, and in search of scapegoats to justify collective failures, when simple reciprocity is anticipated.....
This is behavior is not only shameful....it is violent!!!
And should be the furthest thing expected from a so-called 'ally!