They really want to have their cake and eat it too.I disagree. Women want a nice wedding and that's it.. It's like their thing because they see all these bride television shows. When reality sets in they want out, especially when they know they can get 50%..
But they absolutely would rather be a wife than BM
And you know this when their baby's father wifin someone else other than them and the jealousy hate and envy kick in.