I don't even think they see it like that. They see it as children are their number #1 priority to protect by any means. They see it from that standpoint first. That's how their intuition works.They see children as leverage to get what THEY want. Not for the child's well being. Not the husband. Only for them. They see children as free money by the government, farce statements like "I'm a single mother" while having a HUSBAND at home, see them as bragging rights for attention.
I understand why women are upset at their s/o having kids outside of the relationship, but we should shut up while they cheat on their man and have kids that are deprived from the attention from the biological father. Cause they kids grow up, and WILL GET PISSED at their mothers for not even seeing who their biological fathers are. All this is proving is that feminists' secrets will implode the household and create unnecessary tensions in the household.
We clearly don't see children this way. Especially once the child or children is born. That's obvious. We see the situation before we see child. That's how we are wired.