GMB brehs, Are you cool with dying alone?

[ignorethis]

that’s my ideal outcome, but I always have a woman that latches on to me and wants to stop me from getting there.

 

[AceMan]

Bury me in the Gucci store

 

[Rawtid]

I have no fear of dying “alone” as in physically by myself. However I’d hate to leave earth not having meaningful associations, platonic or otherwise. Like I don’t want to be the elderly that no one calls or comes to visit, just out this hoe thugging old and alone.

That would be scary. Those are the folks that die and they end up rotting for weeks until found eventually by a maintenance worker or something. That’s sad.

 

[MikelArteta]

Death is not a sudden event for most ppl. I encourage you to visit the sick in hospitals, hospices etc

I work in a hospital breh
It is appointed for men to die. When it's your time to go it's your time

 

[Family Lives Matter]

the best part of marriage doesn’t come until you’re old and your kids are grown and maybe even your grandkids too

nikkaz can’t think long term and are attached to their youth. but life is long and when you’re 65+ and nearing the end one person’s companionship is way more valuable. plus old women absolutely do care physically for their aging husbands, and so do old men for their wives. you ain’t never seen grandpa combing his wife’s hair every morning bc she’s in a wheelchair? that shyt is SWEET and that type of love is a fruit of a whole lifetime together.

for whatever issues my folks had while they were in the fog of war that is raising kids, the older they get the sweeter and more devoted to each other they get. they be old and goofy and happy like little kids together & whenever one of them goes first i’ll be happy to move them in with me and oversee their end of days. shyt i be telling em come move out with me now!! it might be a burden but “he aint heavy he’s my brother”

nikkaz without a healthy family structure just don’t get it…..

Talk sense to incels raised on YouTube videos who look at the creators as father figures brehs

 

[Diyhai]

nephews, nieces
brothers, sisters
good friends
if u nurtured other kids in the community
all these people will be there
and some of your women if you had good relationships with them too

 

[The ADD]

the best part of marriage doesn’t come until you’re old and your kids are grown and maybe even your grandkids too

nikkaz can’t think long term and are attached to their youth. but life is long and when you’re 65+ and nearing the end one person’s companionship is way more valuable. plus old women absolutely do care physically for their aging husbands, and so do old men for their wives. you ain’t never seen grandpa combing his wife’s hair every morning bc she’s in a wheelchair? that shyt is SWEET and that type of love is a fruit of a whole lifetime together.

for whatever issues my folks had while they were in the fog of war that is raising kids, the older they get the sweeter and more devoted to each other they get. they be old and goofy and happy like little kids together & whenever one of them goes first i’ll be happy to move them in with me and oversee their end of days. shyt i be telling em come move out with me now!! it might be a burden but “he aint heavy he’s my brother”

nikkaz without a healthy family structure just don’t get it…..

You can get that and it not be something you strive for.

 

[dr. pill biden]

You can get that and it not be something you strive for.

do you want to build and start working for the harvest while the sun is still up (in your youth) or at the 11th hour when winter is already here?

we all gotta be intentional about our lives. you can’t be passive like the bytches like “oh it’s just gonna come to me if i wait long enough”…you either work for shyt or you don’t get it

keep counting on your neices and nephews to step up for you tho (how is that any less of a burden on them? idk)

 

[mbewane]

I'm not per se "GMB", just not really been good at dealing with the opposite sex in general I guess. Been 100% single the vast majority of my "sexually active" life. So I'm just used to it, it's just "normal" for meSo I'll probably end up alone. I totally see the upside in having a family and whatnot, but to get with someone just because you want someone to be there when you're old kind of sounds like I'm using that person. Even worse my kids, I don't wan't to have kids just to use them as caretakers when I'm old, that's putting pressure on them while they didn't ask for anything. Matter of fact knowing how badly organized and "unpractical" I am I wouldn't want my kids to feel that they HAVE to take care of me just because I didn't set myself up correctly for old age. I don't even want to put that weight on them.

Also I guess this has a lot to do with the examples you've seen around you. I don't come from a "classic" family situation, I left home when I was 15 and my mom been dead for almost 20 years, so it's not like I saw my father or my mother with all these kids and grand-kids and was like "damn that looks nice, I'd want that for myself too".

 

[Dave24]

@mbewane why haven't you been good with dealing with women? For me it is because of my social anxiety.

 

[DamienWayne]

yes i have alot of nieces and nephews.

 

[The ADD]

do you want to build and start working for the harvest while the sun is still up (in your youth) or at the 11th hour when winter is already here?

we all gotta be intentional about our lives. you can’t be passive like the bytches like “oh it’s just gonna come to me if i wait long enough”…you either work for shyt or you don’t get it

keep counting on your neices and nephews to step up for you tho (how is that any less of a burden on them? idk)

Again you are espousing your own wants and beliefs on others. Everyone’s goal isn’t marriage or a long term relationship and doing it for the sake of having a caretaker later in life isn’t noble.

 

[mbewane]

@mbewane why haven't you been good with dealing with women? For me it is because of my social anxiety.

Shyness, soxial anxiety, just not knowing how/when to make my move, etc. Plus been battling with low-intensity depression for decades. Sometimes flirting/"spitting game" felt like having to speak a foreign language I'd never even heard, don't really know how to explain it. I know brehs will crack jokes and be like "just go and talk to her" but if it were so easy TO ME I would've done it by now. Also on the other hand I've often been in kind of not-so-great practical situations (crap job, lame appartement, etc) so I don't even feel confident to step to most women. And at some point you kind of get used to it (I'm 41) and develop your own habits and value your peace of mind over anything else, so I'm not even looking for something tbh. Too much of a hassle lol.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I can't imagine having to deal with health issues while dealing with my wife dealing with my health issues.

In short, having to listen to some woman crying all day while I slowly die does not sound like a positive.

 

[Dem313wayz]

I got a huge family and I plan to have alot of kids.

Imagine having a heart attack in the kitchen and your decomposed corpse is only discovered due to the scent travelling into the neighborhood.

Police break in & maggots eating you like thanksgiving dinner.

That happened to my dad cousin. He had a heart attack and was found 3 days later by his daughter after nobody had heard from him