im curious breh, what makes a man a simp? what childhood experiences does one go through?
i wasnt the prettiest nikka in school but i never had this mentality of simpin for just any puzz so where does simp natural come from?
Could be anything. Probably didn't get much love at home and is looking for the validation in a female.....or puts women on a pedestal....or has low self esteem and tries to buy a woman's attention with money/gifts etc....or simply doesn't think much of themselves, period.
i wouldnt say he is a "Denzel" lookin type of nikka but he making a decent amount of money now and i sense he finally maturing about making moves in his adult life but his girl is emotionally abusing him and holding him back
thats why i cant wife no single mom because you get too emotionally attached to both mom and child so it makes it even harder to up and leave especially when you keep the lights on in the little house so its better to just not get involved in that drama in the 1st place but he was a "puzzy deprived lame" back in the day so idk maybe he was desperate
Women sense low self esteem in a dude like a shark can detect blood in the ocean miles away. If you have no confidence or you're looking for validation, then you're the perfect prey for a woman with a bad mind in a desperate situation ie single mother with no money. If you ain't happy with yourself you're not gonna be happy with anyone else and there will always be people who will take advantage of you when they sense that.
Women like this chick is why most dudes on this board warn against getting into relationships with single mothers and ignore all the shaming tactics from the other side. She's probably laughing behind his back and bragging about how she has a sucker on a leash to take care of her and her kid(s)....and THAT'S why many dudes on here and offline sound cold when talking about single mothers. You got knocked up and have kids, you deal with it.
It's a shame because there are many brothas with good hearts who would have liked to have done the honourable and noble thing, but sadly there's more than enough women out there who don't deserve it, so now dudes are just like fukk it. I just know that for me personally, any children I may have in the future and pay for are the ones swimming around in my nutsack right now as we speak.