Don't hate, participate, they can cook in more than just the kitchen
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Don't hate, participate, they can cook in more than just the kitchen
I agree with all this.It's simple to me.
A non black person growing up in the hood or region where there's lots of blacks and sounds like them=Okay(including white folks barring them saying nikka of course).
A non black person growing up in the suburbs and is known to sound one way but when in the presence of blacks suddenly start talking in a forced way to imitate one is .
Like running into Bill during lunch break at work and he's on some " What's up dawg? What's the dilly yo??"
Like there's this Italian Cac at my job who at first meeting him I'm sure he not from the hood because of how he talks and sounds but as soon as I'm around and he's talking to me alone he tryna talk about rap, "hood shyt" and tryna be "down". I hate that shyt. Had to tell him to and stop that corny shyt.
Idk for me its diffenitly a turnoff when white girls are ghetto. But I like my black women a tad bit racheti was just thinking about wow ghetto when the chick isn't black = good and when the chick is black = bad
They'll sound like what they get input from the most. Hell, there was this black chick in my high school that sounded EXACTLY like a white valley girl that had us dying. We just called her white girl. I guess he must've grew up getting that input from that type of material for years.I agree with all this.
what about a japanese person who does nothing but watch hood flicks and listen to rap? and has dated nothing but nikkas since 16 and most of her english is learned via black people?
I wanted to touch on this subject.
a lot of these broads are in the bay and houston. many are vietnamese. V-Nasty is half vietnamese. basically, like latinos, they just moved right into the hood and grew up around black people. its when they've never been to the states and talk like that, that I get a little bit weirded out and turned off.
I really shouldnt be turned off by white or asian women sounding urban (we typically dont mind with latino/latinas tho), but I am. no self hate its just very weird to me like a caricature. I'm trying to get over it tho. Im from cali so my accent isn't that strong, I dont sound hood, my pronunciations are clear, but i have no problems dating a black girl that sounds hella hood, but for some strange reason I dont like hearing hood asians and white chicks talk, even if they were born and raised in east oakland. I had a discussion with my mom about it and she made a good point (which has slowly changed my views on the matter).
when you talk chinese, they say cool, if you speak slang chinese, they think its amazing. when asians speak suburban vernacular white people PREFER it, so then why is it that when people speak in african american vernacular we make fun? are we making fun of ourselves? do we see something wrong with the way we sound when we see someone else talk like that? why is it when asians sound white, white folks dont view that as a caricature, but we do?
Idk for me its diffenitly a turnoff when white girls are ghetto. But I like my black women a tad bit rachet
not all white folks sound like surfers and valley girls and italian guidos. an asian girl sounding like a valley girl would never catch shyt for it. a surfer would probably feel an asian girl MORE if she sounded like them.Because there is no such thing as "talking white" Speaking proper English isn't something uniquely white nor should it be something associated only with white people. We get offended when others speak Ebonics because that is something directly associated with us. So whem we hear an outsider speak it, it's like you said we view it as a caricature.
I agree with all this.
what about a japanese person who does nothing but watch hood flicks and listen to rap? and has dated nothing but nikkas since 16 and most of her english is learned via black people?
we're on the same page. Thats why when I hear a black person get upset at a cambodian from alabama "sounding like a black person" on twitter, I always how else is she supposed to sound? like Kim Yung Sum?They'll sound like what they get input from the most. Hell, there was this black chick in my high school that sounded EXACTLY like a white valley girl that had us dying. We just called her white girl. I guess he must've grew up getting that input from that type of material for years.
not all white folks sound like surfers and valley girls and italian guidos. an asian girl sounding like a valley girl would never catch shyt for it. a surfer would probably feel an asian girl MORE if she sounded like them.
You people stay making exceptions for non black women. If this was a black chick.......
How about this, when the a black kid gets gunned down please don't expect black women to have ya'll back. Please ask these non black women surely they will help your black ass.