Getting a vasectomy is personal. This is why I'm making mine public.

[Guvnor]

He's 40+ and married with 3 kids already. Unless he wants to get a side bytch pregnant it's not that serious.

Nah it's very serious, she could get a tubal ligation since she is the one even mentioning a procedure and it pretty much does the same thing. I bet she won't do that though.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Cant front @Shadow King got some good points

No he doesn't and he's wrong about the shyt he's posting about (vasectomies actually are reversible and sometimes the vas deferens can fuse back on it's on) and he's also ignorant of the side effects of birth control.

 

[Shadow King]

This is just a conversation I've never seen men have... it almost seems like a different world on here... chix have babies.... they dont feel like having more, they get their tubes tied..
The End.
I'm 37 and nobody in my clique has ever mentioned it...
Also, I try to stay as far away from hospitals as possible...
I almost feel like this vasectomy conversating is just another agenda...
Like men have been pushed beneath women so far now that b.c. now means a man should do some surgery... even tho the convo always goes back to a woman saying "it's my body"...
So ur responsible for it then....
It's very strange times, bro bro... strange times indeed

I think it's a conversation we don't have because most dudes fit the bill of Kamau; 40-ish, married, already have a litter. Most men are remaining single later now so the idea for a 35+ man who doesn't want (more) kids is unconventional.

Nah it's very serious, she could get a tubal ligation since she is the one even mentioning a procedure and it pretty much does the same thing. I bet she won't do that though.

While you're not wrong, she's pretty much last the childbearing age so doing it isn't a big a priority.

No he doesn't and he's wrong about the shyt he's posting about (vasectomies actually are reversible and sometimes the vas deferens can fuse back on it's on) and he's also ignorant of the side effects of birth control.

Vasectomy reversals are 50/50. And medicines we take to alleviate or cure conditions have side effects but we still take them. Is the responsibility of 20 something's and teens to avoid having kids strictly on men? Are we going to tell young women "run the risk or be celibate" like we essentially do men? If women "like sex as much as men" and don't like condoms as much as men, they need to find the method that works best for them or not have sex altogether. I'm not trying to be insensitive but these women are adults too.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I know you didn't say anything about what women should do because you don't think women should do anything.
So its man's responsibility to be in charge of women's birth control...okay

Correction, it a man's job to be responsible for his own birthday control and, if he chooses to, his woman's too if he think that it's necessary and has the ability. He is also responsible for not laying with a woman who doesn't meet his BC standards. .

Oh and since you need the obvious to be ststed...vica versa for women

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No he doesn't and he's wrong about the shyt he's posting about (vasectomies actually are reversible and sometimes the vas deferens can fuse back on it's on) and he's also ignorant of the side effects of birth control.

There is no use. I bring up a point about how more men should take responsibility for procreation and not allow women to do it for them. But all he wanna do is have women make all the decisions for them . shyt doesn't make any sense whatsoever. What reasonable person would want to let another person who may not even have the same intentions make such a huge life changing decision for them if they don't have to?

I guess it's just easier to have kids you don't want and be mad about it.

 

[Guvnor]

While you're not wrong, she's pretty much last the childbearing age so doing it isn't a big a priority.

If that's the case why does he have to get a vasectomy?

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

There is no use. I bring up a point about how more men should take responsibility for procreation and not allow women to do it for them. But all he wanna do is have women make all the decisions for them . shyt doesn't make any sense whatsoever. What reasonable person would want to let another person who may not even have the same intentions make such a huge life changing decision for them if they don't have to?

I guess it's just easier to have kids you don't want and be mad about it.

I was following the convo between you two with every time he responded back yo you . For what it's worth those from the outside looking can see you made good points.

 

[Prynce]

I was following the convo between you two with every time he responded back yo you . For what it's worth those from the outside looking can see you made good points.

all that's cap