Ummmm okay so then you agree with me that more men should get the snip snip so you all no longer have to bytch and cry about what women aren't doing in regards to BC right?
Getting a vasectomy is personal. This is why I'm making mine public.
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Ummmm okay so then you agree with me that more men should get the snip snip so you all no longer have to bytch and cry about what women aren't doing in regards to BC right?
No because doing that says all the responsibility is on men when it takes two to have a baby. And once again men in that age where oops babies happen most often aren't given vasectomies.
Stop excusing women.
So you don't want to be in charge of your own form of birth control. Got it. Should have just said that. You choose to lay with women who will not use BC and you refuse to do anything about it yourself. Cool. Well you deserve what you get.
No, that's not what I said. I'm saying men should not be obligated to do something permanent and inaccessible before 30 when women have over a half dozen temporary methods to be proactive from 16 and up. You're in here saying men need to buy women's BC such as sponges and female condoms so that we're responsible for YOUR methods.So you don't want to be in charge of your own form of birth control. Got it. Should have just said that. You choose to lay with women who will not use BC and you refuse to do anything about it yourself. Cool. Well you deserve what you get.
Should've just said women should have no responsibility for BC because this is clearly how are you feel.
man why you even talking to a woman lol. One second its her body her responsibility, next second she got no control over her body so men need to do something.
I never said anything about what women should do. I said more men should take responsibility upon themselves to control their own lives but you want women to do it for you. That's all what you're saying comes down to. Keep waiting on other people to make your life better breh.
Women gonna do what they wanna do because you refuse to do it yourself.
If a woman chooses not to use BC and then you still choose to lay with her when you don't have to then that's on you. Do what you want just stop whining about it.
BTW vasectomies can be reversed and hormonal BC has many side effects which have long term side effects which you obviously don't care about. Just like you don't care about taking personal responsibility for your own BC. Like I said before do what you want. Just stop complaining.
Don't speak for me. I do have control which is why I don't have children. Men should do the same instead of waiting on women. I don't know why personal responsibility offends ya'll so much.
I know you didn't say anything about what women should do because you don't think women should do anything.
So its man's responsibility to be in charge of women's birth control...okay
Cant front @Shadow King got some good points
Thanks breh and I say all that as someone who is interested in getting the snip snip when I'm of an ethical age (by doctor's standards) and doesn't condone raw dogging just cause but to cite vasectomies as a rational solution for men under 30 is lazy.
I'm in my 40's with 4 sons. Had mine done @ 10 years ago. 10/10 would do it again...
No homo, I guess, but do cummin' feel da same????
It feels exactly the same for me, no differences at all. I don't however, have the same force/volume as I did before....but that could be age/weight/etc too, but I noticed it AFTER the procedure.
Ah, bet.
I heard the procedure is quick. I know quite a few ppl who've had it done.
I mean, I don't wanna be 40+, fathering newborns
I'm 40 and my youngest will be e in July
This is just a conversation I've never seen men have... it almost seems like a different world on here... chix have babies.... they dont feel like having more, they get their tubes tied..
The End.
I'm 37 and nobody in my clique has ever mentioned it...
Also, I try to stay as far away from hospitals as possible...
I almost feel like this vasectomy conversating is just another agenda...
Like men have been pushed beneath women so far now that b.c. now means a man should do some surgery... even tho the convo always goes back to a woman saying "it's my body"...
So ur responsible for it then....
It's very strange times, bro bro... strange times indeed