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Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs:blessed:


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Congrats my G. Did the same almost a year ago. It will seem difficult in the beginning but Gotdamn if the feeling of not having your very existence sucked out of your body feels :wow:
 

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my nikka ya wife divorcing you


u got pics of u skeeting on that fat hoe all on the net:mjlol:
right next to pics of your son:mjlol:
that are next to pics of u eating out a fat white bytch:scust:




now u dating a midly retarded 19 rican hoe:mjlol:





your life is done
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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you
I assume you cut off everyone that didn't agree with your decision?
 

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Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs:blessed:


#TPC

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Sorry you were one of the people inspiring me to get married

MAN.

ALLLLLLLLL of the married brehs are dropping like flies @61 Corpses

only @beaniemac and @Buckeye Fever left.
 

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my nikka ya wife divorcing you


u got pics of u skeeting on that fat hoe all on the net:mjlol:
right next to pics of your son:mjlol:
that are next to pics of u eating out a fat white bytch:scust:




now u dating a midly retarded 19 rican hoe:mjlol:





your life is done

I'm doing pretty well, unfortunately you can't say the same for yourself. lol @ posting all the smilies to drum up a chuckle, so feminine and lame.
 

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Getting married in 5 months. Its crazy because in Highschool she couldn't stand my black ass. But somehow, we ended up together, had a son and be on 3 years strong. We bout to be going through some tough times since I just lost my job this week. Bout to be one hell of test.


To @Ziggiy sorry for troubles man. But a man is man and has to do what makes him happy.
 

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shouldn't marriage vows be more important than your ego? if your girl can't tell you her opinion, then wtf did you even marry her for. honestly sounds to me like you wasn't ready for it.

have you talked to your parents/old heads about this? a common thing I hear is people these days take marriage too lightly and give up too easily. this is straight up the most frivolous thing I've ever heard someone getting divorced for... ever...
 

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What's so good about it is that it's what I want to do. I can't explain to you how much I enjoy the business, it would be the equivalent of whatever you have a passion about and are exceptionally good at. I enjoy the work, I enjoy technology, I enjoy helping customers. Assistant Store managers start at about 60K and General managers can get upwards of 102K.

I'm a Geek Squad Manager. Which is actually hourly. It's the only hourly manager position within the store. I make $20.17 Hourly not including overtime and monthly bonuses (those bonuses :banderas:)

So I went from $11.40 in December. Worked my ass off to two promotions and the third promotion was to Manager. I did that in 6 months AFTER the company with through a restructure (which took away positions)

I couldn't really relate to you how much work I put into it. How I worked open-close every single day for a three week stretch, legs so tired they felt like I was walking on Jello. How I got up at 5am every day to take the marta and be on time and let her take the car. Rain, snow, hail, whatever I made its mission to be right there at the store even before the opening manager was. I was the last one out of the door. The one who led all employees in sales after two weeks. I couldn't really relate that level of commitment and grind to you because in your ignorant mind this is a position that equates to McDonald's. You could never understand nor walk in my shoes....



But SHE knew. Because she saw me do it all before. Before we were married and I Was doing the exact same thing to be successful. She witnessed it first hand. She KNEW here was no way in HELL I'd ever allow myself to be "35 and making 12.50". Because no matter WHAT I do or where I start, I will ALWAYS end up successful.

She spit in my face when she made that comment. She took everything she'd ever seen me work myself to the BONE for and shyt on it. That it is NOT the woman that deserves my last name nor my forever. That is a woman who deserves exactly what she got.


The Bushes:camby:



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You hustling backwards breh.... pride comes before a fall.... good luck with your choices but honestly.... you were looking for a way out of the marriage.... you are scared of being a leader of a household and you are relieved that you can hang your hat on "she didn't support me."
:dead: didn't they just close a bunch of stores too?

Best Buy is about to be the new Circuit City.... I wish the brother well but you know your moves ain't about shyt when you got @4North1Side2 supporting your decisions...
 

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shouldn't marriage vows be more important than your ego? if your girl can't tell you her opinion, then wtf did you even marry her for. honestly sounds to me like you wasn't ready for it.

have you talked to your parents/old heads about this? a common thing I hear is people these days take marriage too lightly and give up too easily. this is straight up the most frivolous thing I've ever heard someone getting divorced for... ever...

What's so important about "vows"? Wedding vows were invented by men in the old ages to shame women from leaving they Husbands no matter what. LOL @ vows being more important than a person's happiness. Obviously if OP's Wife was holding him down, he would overlook the disrespect. Use some common sense here.
 

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What's so important about "vows"? Wedding vows were invented by men in the old ages to shame women from leaving they Husbands no matter what. LOL @ vows being more important than a person's happiness. Obviously if OP's Wife was holding him down, he would overlook the disrespect. Use some common sense here.

The fukk you know about common sense? :what:
 
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