It's ironic because this culture which champions alpha males is the exact opposite. They complain about being overlooked by women for guys who have money or a big physique, while citing their intelligence. They simply think the standards have been set too high, and should be lowered for them, while they themselves refuse to lower their standards. Ex: So the dime piece chick doesn't feel you, and that makes you mad at her. Yet, you look at the chubby chick with disgust because she showed interest in you. Their way of thinking is antithetical to what is needed for the military, which they supposedly revere.
The manosphere/Red Pill is a circle jerk in which they tell the audience what they want to hear. They do it because it makes them money. When their followers does some stupid shyt, the presenters can hide their hands and say "I'm just putting the information out, it's up to the listener if they want to believe it."
But on another note, is if alpha to coddle them, or bytch slap them and tell them to "man up." Life is not fair, and that's a reality that these boys have to deal with if they are to become real men.