Lol no you don't. My mortgage in Hawaii is 3k and I make 155k. I can still do what I want within reason and invest.The average single family home in NJ as of 2022 is 420k.
At 7.9 interest and with property taxes averaging around 10k a year.
You would need a down payment of between 40-80k
Even on a 30 year mortgage that is around a 3000/mo
Basically you need a household income of around 200-250k to be able to comfortably make those payments.
The kids are right to feel like home ownership borders on unattainable.
You need a house hold income of about 120k. So each person making 60k and you can do it. That's reasonable.
Gen Z is bad with numbers. Lol