nah see the Quran says that the thought is not a sin but should be ignored the same way any thought about extramarital sex should ould be ignored but that the act should never come to fruition. If it is a desire, it is on the same level as a desire for a woman outside of marriage, but the gay desire is never to be fulfilled on earth or in heaven, whereas a man may one day marry and fulfill a desire for a woman. Also, Allah destroyed Sodom and Gommorah, not Lot, who he commanded to look away and never return. This can be interpreted to mean that gays should be shunned by men and punished by Allah.