What responsibility do women have in being raped?
Well being a woman...one who has had guys come at me in a way that shouldn't have happened I can say this.
I'm responsible for taking an preventative step I can to insure my safety.
That for me has always included, going with a group of girlfriends to a party, not drinking to the point that I can't consent if I do decide to have sex, as a matter of fact not really sleeping with dudes I just met (I let them know from jump I'm not with the shyt, but to each their own,, at any rate, I'm always VERBAL about what I do and don't want to do because consenting is my responsibility).
When I was attacked (thankfully no foricble intercourse happened), I went to the authorities immediately because it was my responsibility (unfortunately..no one should ever have to have that responsibility but I've known since I was young that life isnt' promised to be fair and I tell my daughters the EXACT same thing...to look out for yourself and look out for your friends).
What I know for sure is all this activism isn't and will not replace parenting. And as a woman there are certain things generations before me always taught me about being a woman and how to care for, protect, watch out for and fight for myself.
I don't defer to looney's who shout SLUTWALK on one hand and VICTIM on another for advice on how the world should work or how I should operate in it.