FYI, the whole alpha male thing is a myth made up from erroneous ecological research on wolves

Based Lord Zedd

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I know it’s not directed at me because I said who said it. You are blind on this that don’t have nothing to do with being better. I guess you just want to say something ye shrug. Using your logic there are no leaders and everybody is always equal? Ok gotcha.

Being a leader is not the same as being alpha. My boss is the leader in my job group, he would not fall under the alpha definition at all (unless you believe he's an alpha male because he's a leader).


Sure if you broadly defined an alpha male as the leader in any group they exist, but I'm pretty sure that isn't the message most people are trying to convey when they use terms like alpha male.

If the "alpha" is just the leader you don't need those terms at all.
 

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Being a leader is not the same as being alpha. My boss is the leader in my job group, he would not fall under the alpha definition at all (unless you believe he's an alpha male because he's a leader).


Sure if you broadly defined an alpha male as the leader in any group they exist, but I'm pretty sure that isn't the message most people are trying to convey when they use terms like alpha male.

If the "alpha" is just the leader you don't need those terms at all.
Like I said you’re being super technical but I know why. A ton of you dudes do that on here for some strange fukking reason. I keep telling you I don’t even use the term so why do you keep saying you don’t need the term to me? I said to me there is similarities and that’s what I think is similar. It’s like you just want to go back and forth for no reason. I guess but what is your real beef?
 

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Like I said you’re being super technical but I know why. A ton of you dudes do that on here for some strange fukking reason. I keep telling you I don’t even use the term so why do you keep saying you don’t need the term to me? I said to me there is similarities and that’s what I think is similar. It’s like you just want to go back and forth for no reason. I guess but what is your real beef?

I don't have a beef, I asked you a question. If you don't want to go back and forth, don't respond.

The ways I've seen the term alpha used is mostly like the OP describes, not a simple substitution for the word leader. A lot of times it's about getting women.
 

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I don't have a beef, I asked you a question. If you don't want to go back and forth, don't respond.

The ways I've seen the term alpha used is mostly like the OP describes, not a simple substitution for the word leader. A lot of times it's about getting women.
No shyt I don’t have to respond. Spare me the sassy shyt. I’m just wondering what the fukk the point of the question is when you don’t even care
 

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The alpha male thing is true to an extent. People are drawn to others they perceive as having resources. The concept of alpha male can help men build their confidence and work ethic to acquire resources and be at their best.

Its extremely rare to see an in-shape, financially strong man with a big network of influence being lonely and angry and spending his time on message boards and social media complaining about how the world is unfair to him. Men like that tend to dominate in whatever environment they're in because they give 100% at whatever they try at. It is true that 20% of the cause gets 80% of the results. We've seen it dating, we have seen it in sports, we've seen it in the corporate world. Not everyone will fall into that 20% but as a man you owe it to yourself and everyone around you to give 100% and try to fit into that group.
 

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No shyt I don’t have to respond. Spare me the sassy shyt. I’m just wondering what the fukk the point of the question is when you don’t even care

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I do care. I wanted to know if you viewed yourself as an alpha male or beta male. You basically told me, it varies group to group. We disagree here because from you're defining alpha male generically as "leader."

Again, the way I typically see it being used online is about stuff like getting p*ssy, masculinity, etc. I typically either see it from incel types who whine about being "beta" or guys who consider themselves (or are labeled) "alpha" due to some perceived superiority.
 

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:umad:

I do care. I wanted to know if you viewed yourself as an alpha male or beta male. You basically told me, it varies group to group. We disagree here because from you're defining alpha male generically as "leader."

Again, the way I typically see it being used online is about stuff like getting p*ssy, masculinity, etc. I typically either see it from incel types who whine about being "beta" or guys who consider themselves (or are labeled) "alpha" due to some perceived superiority.
Fam you’re posting you’re mad like some four Chan cac. What am I mad about? Stupid nikka I agree with you about who uses it thats why I said I don’t get why the fukk you asked me personally this question. I just said I see similarities in leadership to the term Smfh.
 

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Every man I have ever met that bought into the Alpha/Beta ideology has crippling insecurity. I mean it’s bad, moody, passive aggressive, and arrogant. This observation hasn’t failed me yet.
 
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