for black relationships to heal black women are going 2 have apologize to the blk men they hurt

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Bruh...move forward...u owe urself peace...the universe has a way of doing ppl the way they did u or worse...believe me...holdin onto shyt only makes it worse...becuz u will be hellbent on revenge...peace of mind is better...happiness is the best revenge...tha ppl that tried to break u will still be miserable trying to fukk with u..u can't let them win...give them something to really pissed off about:mjgrin:
 
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DrX said:
Growing up black women hurt me and I still carry those scars till this day. It ain't no "be a man in get over it" were human beings. I have feelings u know. Many good black men that didn't fit the nikka mold got treated poorly. Us alternative/nerdy black guys got shytted on.

I need closure. The scars from the past are still here . I seen this girl that used to talk shyt about me day in high school on Facebook. She was the school bad chick. She still bad actually but shes all depressed and humbled by life as a single mom. I took great enjoyment in her pain. Reading her hurt was the equivalent of popping a zanny. I was floating. I was floating on a cloud like Goku riding through Namek

But It shouldn't be like that. I don't wanna feel this way inside. My experiences with black women have traumatized me. My past experiences come to the surface and fire enter my soul. Alot of screaming spirits rise to the from my stomach and enter my brain by just thinking about how I was respectful to them only to be disrespected for no reason.

I think about the disrespect from black men too I took in my youth and think about how I should've psychically harmed certain nikkas Thats why I say the shyt I do about black men from time to time. Because when I get the thinking I start hating u nikkas with the hate of 1000 men but I digress this is about the ladies .

Black women are going to have to make this thing right by apologizing to black men that they hurt. Alot of these black guys with degrees chasing white women are really hurting and traumatized by the rejections and harassment from their youth.

These guys got shytted on and they get older . Figure the world out and start putting the past together and get angry. They take revenge by ignoring black women and getting with some non black woman. Black nerds and the alternative types usually end up as our middle class. They're resources go to other communities while the nikkas that got choose are either bums or if they're getting money they're chasing material items, they're not into community building.

The end game is us being exterminated. Now u got gentrification, IR families and where do that leave the rest of black society? fighting for crumbs like the hunger games. Pretty soon once were all displaced into remote areas from being priced out the city we'll have no resources, jobs, markets ...you'll have black people in the middle of nowhere just doing drugs and drinking because there's nothing for them. Its a slow death and a passive black genocide.

The ultimate goal is death. Were on the clock as a people. Once I get this CDL and stack this bread when the shyt goes down it ain't gonna be no pro black shyt in that day. I'm shooting first and asking questions later. U come knocking on my door I'ma shoot u brotha. I'm sorry but u ain't gonna take my resources once this society collapse.
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Yooooooo are u in atl? I dnt wanna woop ya man come smoke some and chill the fukk out ill literally put u on with a crazy skitzo bytch and y'all can go bang ya heads thru drywall or w/e crazy ppl do
 
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King Jae said:
Bruh...move forward...u owe urself peace...the universe has a way of doing ppl the way they did u or worse...believe me...holdin onto shyt only makes it worse...becuz u will be hellbent on revenge...peace of mind is better...happiness is the best revenge...tha ppl that tried to break u will still be miserable trying to fukk with u..u can't let them win...give them something to really pissed off about:mjgrin:
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This. Let Karma handle it's biz. Dwelling and wanting revenge only sends bad vibes back your way, setting you up for more karmic retribution.
 
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I feel you completely OP. :to: Black women growing up shytted on me as well; even though I'm grown and try not to let grade school stuff cloud my view of the world, I still have an intense hatred for specific girls that destroyed my self-esteem. It is what it is. But, I use the hatred of women from my past as fuel to get better. You can't change the past. :manny:

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There’s nothing for me to apologize about.

I’m not trying to discount anyone’s pain on the Coli, but rejection is a part of life. Whether it’s from the opposite sex, a job, a team, etc. can’t let that shyt make you bitter.

A lot of men on here seem sensitive and overly emotional when it comes to women.

If your that hurt about the handful of black women that hurt you when you were young, that you want to project all those experiences on to black women collectively, and date white women, who weren’t checking for you back then either, then so be it.
 
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I can respect a dude that doesn't hide his true feelings behind some lame tough guy act. We need more dudes that can think for themselves and drop this robotic "I'm a man and nothing gets to me" act. For people that went through a lot of pain and ridicule growing up I do hope you all can move past it and become too distracted with your own life to check in on people that hurt you previously. I haven't been through a lot of the stuff some of you have been through but I can still relate to having anger and hatred towards people.

Sometimes it's better to forget about people and completely worry about your own life. Getting joy out of seeing other people struggle shouldn't be something that gives you a high, once you all start doing better for yourselves you will get a much better high from your own achievements. People from your past should become an afterthought.
 
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DrX said:
Growing up black women hurt me and I still carry those scars till this day. It ain't no "be a man in get over it" were human beings. I have feelings u know. Many good black men that didn't fit the nikka mold got treated poorly. Us alternative/nerdy black guys got shytted on.

I need closure. The scars from the past are still here . I seen this girl that used to talk shyt about me day in high school on Facebook. She was the school bad chick. She still bad actually but shes all depressed and humbled by life as a single mom. I took great enjoyment in her pain. Reading her hurt was the equivalent of popping a zanny. I was floating. I was floating on a cloud like Goku riding through Namek

But It shouldn't be like that. I don't wanna feel this way inside. My experiences with black women have traumatized me. My past experiences come to the surface and fire enter my soul. Alot of screaming spirits rise to the from my stomach and enter my brain by just thinking about how I was respectful to them only to be disrespected for no reason.

I think about the disrespect from black men too I took in my youth and think about how I should've psychically harmed certain nikkas Thats why I say the shyt I do about black men from time to time. Because when I get the thinking I start hating u nikkas with the hate of 1000 men but I digress this is about the ladies .

Black women are going to have to make this thing right by apologizing to black men that they hurt. Alot of these black guys with degrees chasing white women are really hurting and traumatized by the rejections and harassment from their youth.

These guys got shytted on and they get older . Figure the world out and start putting the past together and get angry. They take revenge by ignoring black women and getting with some non black woman. Black nerds and the alternative types usually end up as our middle class. They're resources go to other communities while the nikkas that got choose are either bums or if they're getting money they're chasing material items, they're not into community building.

The end game is us being exterminated. Now u got gentrification, IR families and where do that leave the rest of black society? fighting for crumbs like the hunger games. Pretty soon once were all displaced into remote areas from being priced out the city we'll have no resources, jobs, markets ...you'll have black people in the middle of nowhere just doing drugs and drinking because there's nothing for them. Its a slow death and a passive black genocide.

The ultimate goal is death. Were on the clock as a people. Once I get this CDL and stack this bread when the shyt goes down it ain't gonna be no pro black shyt in that day. I'm shooting first and asking questions later. U come knocking on my door I'ma shoot u brotha. I'm sorry but u ain't gonna take my resources once this society collapse.
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You were disrespect cuz they didn't see you worthy of being called a man.

Your parents may have had a few flaws in raising you, much like myself and I'm older than you.

You trying to put the prices together, to you about 30 now so that street shyt is dying out and honestly black women are just like other women and want what they need from a man and one of our issues is how we socialize with each other.

We socialize on some shyt that's not reality

I'm way more bitter than you but i gotta keep going forward and you're still very young so don't worry anoit it but like another poster said all your feelings don't matter sucess is all these people will see so come up and let the deep thoughts go.
 
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