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for black relationships to heal black women are going 2 have apologize to the blk men they hurt
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ThrobbingHood
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See, I don’t disagree with most of your posts and I agree somewhat with this post too, but material possessions doesn’t address the root issue here. Yes, everyone should focus on being successful, 100%. But there’s a lot of damaged successful people who think material possessions will heal those internal wounds and those are the sociopaths I’m talking about.
Again, I’m all about economic empowerment and using success as a motivatior. But to use it to merely flex on hos from the past doesn’t address anything (btw I know that wasn’t the crux of your post).
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In all seriousness OP, as a man you’re supposed to go through hardships to come out stronger. Yeah them girls may have shytted on you in the past, but sticking to your guns, accomplishing your goals, that’s what determines if you’re really made or not. Not wanting an apology from people that don’t make matter. Keep working hard, find something you like to do, and build the exact kind of life you want for yourself. Stay off of social media or cut off contact from friends for a little while and devote more time to yourself. Hit the gym and build some muscle + reading the right books will have you feeling on point.
Eventually it’ll get to a point where most people who knew you, although they may not say it to your face, will respect the fact that you’ve taken control of your life. And by that point you won’t even care what they think.
I don't disagree as long as blk men are prepared to do the same and recognize there are blk women with the SAME exact experiences.
"...tell me who I have to beeee...to get some reciprocity!"
Why not apologize to each other and squash it? Both are carrying around a lot of pain and anger towards each other.
And while we are at it, can we stop believing the worst racist lies about one another to justify chasing whites? And admit to a lot of blks dismissing each other not b/c they were mistreated but b/c they didn't want a blk partner anyway due to being socially conditioned out of loving their own?
"...tell me who I have to beeee...to get some reciprocity!"
Why not apologize to each other and squash it? Both are carrying around a lot of pain and anger towards each other.
And while we are at it, can we stop believing the worst racist lies about one another to justify chasing whites? And admit to a lot of blks dismissing each other not b/c they were mistreated but b/c they didn't want a blk partner anyway due to being socially conditioned out of loving their own?
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
Idk breh. I just see things different
Middle school... High school.. College, is not the real world.
The biggest baddest most popular nikka in school, is a nobody in the real world.
The baddest bytch, is a nobody in the real world.
After school is over, real life begins and thats when its time to show & prove.
There's bytches that played me in the past that are sellin p*ssy now.
There are nikkas that played me in the past, that are in jail now.
I'm out here enjoying my health & freedom in society, feeling blessed every day.
Trust me, success heals the pain.
School is not real life.
And most people crumble under the pressure when its time to face real life......
Things change when youre out in the real world, and no longer in those classrooms and hallways.
Stunt on them bytches.
Im witnessing all these chicks from school pop up pregnant, meanwhile they still live at home with mommy and daddy.... Lol.... Man, aint no reason to stress over that old shyt.
ThaEruditious
She luv it over here like Gold Watch.
THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN!
Ever!!
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
Just for context, a woman I dated a few years back seemingly had it all: great career, her own place, car etc.
As we got more serious, she opened up to me about how I was the first black man that she had dated. Prior to that, she refused to even spit in the direction of black men. Her reason being was for multiple reasons. She was molested by her uncle, she was also molested by her step dad (and her mother blamed her for being fast.) and she just generally had negative experiences from black men growing up.
She had never really addressed those issues but imagine carrying that resentment for years and never having the proper therapy and support to deal with those demons? A lot of our black people are damaged and we’ve been tricked into thinking that material possessions or following the paradigm of western “success” will heal that.
I can’t remember which comedian said it but; “behind every pair of Jordan’s being worn, there’s a sad story behind it. Next time you see a young black kid wearing Jordan’s, ask him ‘who hurt you?’”
The best humour is rooted in truth.
As we got more serious, she opened up to me about how I was the first black man that she had dated. Prior to that, she refused to even spit in the direction of black men. Her reason being was for multiple reasons. She was molested by her uncle, she was also molested by her step dad (and her mother blamed her for being fast.) and she just generally had negative experiences from black men growing up.
She had never really addressed those issues but imagine carrying that resentment for years and never having the proper therapy and support to deal with those demons? A lot of our black people are damaged and we’ve been tricked into thinking that material possessions or following the paradigm of western “success” will heal that.
I can’t remember which comedian said it but; “behind every pair of Jordan’s being worn, there’s a sad story behind it. Next time you see a young black kid wearing Jordan’s, ask him ‘who hurt you?’”
The best humour is rooted in truth.
Damn, I actually read this in full and I must say I see where you’re a coming from. I would never abandon black women myself (just can’t do it), but they’re some statistics that backs this assertion (30 percent of college black men marry out).
But as a black men we have to be leaders in the community and still realise the only women for us are black women. Did it hurt to get made fun of? Yes. Did it hurt to rejected? Of course. However as men we have to be stronger than that.
I hope you find peace brother.
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
I hear that. I’m just saying some people never heal fully from those scars and then have a break down when they realise success doesn’t heal those wounds.
ComorianKid
Banned
Nice writing breh, 
you need to write a script or something
you need to write a script or something
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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I had good and bad experiences with black woman.
But i still love em.
Especially my coli black woman
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But i still love em.
Especially my coli black woman
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