Finding out something about your s/o that makes you very uncomfortable unappreciation
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thoushallhustle
All Star
yes ignore the truth!! you mad cuz you only fukk in missionary with the lights off?
SecretLover
iMAThugsDOLL ♥
at all the sexually inadequate dudes in here calling her crazy. nah dude step your dikk game up
u aint neva lied
Nick Barnes
All Star
Breh, if you ain't fukkin the shyt outta her by tonight, you lost. I would do all sorts of freaky shyt to her. Squating over her with my balls on her eyes like what
she don't want dikk though, she want purple nipples, cattle prods, and anal hooks. I wouldn't have a problem wit givin it to her but not every dude thinks like me
aqualung
I wear a crown of curls.
Bravo:
Select a safety word like Kevin Hart's "pineapples," cuz "you gone LEARN today!"
Also, don't get raped. -_- She's a heavyweight. You're a featherweight. Protect your prostate & your anal virginity.
Select a safety word like Kevin Hart's "pineapples," cuz "you gone LEARN today!"
Also, don't get raped. -_- She's a heavyweight. You're a featherweight. Protect your prostate & your anal virginity.
Its not even that, dude said he's not into it.
If he dont get off on torture devices and all that other left-field BDSM shyt, all he can do is leave that relationship in the bushes
Its an incompatibility that will grow into a bigger issue.
If he dont get off on torture devices and all that other left-field BDSM shyt, all he can do is leave that relationship in the bushes
Its an incompatibility that will grow into a bigger issue.
SafeForWork
Banned
This EXACT same thing happened to me, except, my girl wasn't experienced in the BDSM department, yet. I found all this BDSM porn on her computer. (She didn't clamp her nipples or anything, tho. )
She's always wanted to try it, but never really had the chance (too many closed minded partners).
I felt HELLA uncomfortable at first......(thats really an understatement). I contemplated breaking up wit here, because of it.
The idea that she wanted to try BDSM wasn't really the biggest turn off, though. (It WAS a turnoff, tho.) The biggest problem was that she NEVER told me about these fantasies. I mean, I told her all my fantasies, and she never told me about this. So I told her how I felt.
She reminded me that she talked about it with me before, and I (as soon as the conversation started) was like
. So she stopped talkin about it, because she felt weird. I remember the incident.
This really made me understand that my reactions to things can make people keep things from me if they are the timid / or embarrassed type. They'll hide it to save the awkward moment.
So, I've accepted that she's into it, and I actually enjoy tying her up and what not. I thought it would really be an issue, but we don't even do it THAT much. We have regular / love making sex more than anything.
Fantasies are not special if you do them EVERY TIME. You'll probably end up in the same position.
So, with that said, you should go back to her and tell her to stop that secret keeping shyt. Put everything on the table, or your relationship is over. Secrets (no matter how awkward they are) will fukk up a relationship. Make sure you make this CLEAR to her. Then, try the shyt with her. You won't do anything but expand your sexual knowledge, breh. It's not as bad as it looks.
Then tell her your fantasy is wanting a 4 some; you and 3 of her closest homegirls. She has NO choice but to make it happen!
Real shyt, tho. If you don't try it with her, she's going to find someone who will.
shyt, she might even already found someone. Hence the nipple clamps.
You share that girl, breh.
She's always wanted to try it, but never really had the chance (too many closed minded partners).
I felt HELLA uncomfortable at first......(thats really an understatement). I contemplated breaking up wit here, because of it.
The idea that she wanted to try BDSM wasn't really the biggest turn off, though. (It WAS a turnoff, tho.) The biggest problem was that she NEVER told me about these fantasies. I mean, I told her all my fantasies, and she never told me about this. So I told her how I felt.
She reminded me that she talked about it with me before, and I (as soon as the conversation started) was like
. So she stopped talkin about it, because she felt weird. I remember the incident. This really made me understand that my reactions to things can make people keep things from me if they are the timid / or embarrassed type. They'll hide it to save the awkward moment.
So, I've accepted that she's into it, and I actually enjoy tying her up and what not. I thought it would really be an issue, but we don't even do it THAT much. We have regular / love making sex more than anything.
Fantasies are not special if you do them EVERY TIME. You'll probably end up in the same position.
So, with that said, you should go back to her and tell her to stop that secret keeping shyt. Put everything on the table, or your relationship is over. Secrets (no matter how awkward they are) will fukk up a relationship. Make sure you make this CLEAR to her. Then, try the shyt with her. You won't do anything but expand your sexual knowledge, breh. It's not as bad as it looks.
Then tell her your fantasy is wanting a 4 some; you and 3 of her closest homegirls. She has NO choice but to make it happen!
Real shyt, tho. If you don't try it with her, she's going to find someone who will.
shyt, she might even already found someone. Hence the nipple clamps.
You share that girl, breh.
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
just see where it goes. you're still in the "shocked" stage of it all. and you shouldn't take it as an insult that she considers you "boring" especially if she's into something you had no idea about. you have different preferences. you could easily label her a weirdo or deviant and that label would stick harder to her than you being labeled "boring". and her labels make her look appealing only to a very small select few of people, smaller than the group you don't appeal to. it's only confusing because you have feelings for her beyond that realm of sexuality and you want to connect with her there as well. and also because you "thought" you were connecting with her in that realm, but, come to find out, she's of a totally different breed of preferences when it comes to sex...
STEVE
MIami Beach on the check-in.
you better hook up the following:
A) make her squirt
B) see about that threesome or moresome
C) step the dikk game up and become a savage
D) get her to start licking your ass while she is jerking you off
E) GROW UP
A) make her squirt
B) see about that threesome or moresome
C) step the dikk game up and become a savage
D) get her to start licking your ass while she is jerking you off
E) GROW UP
Real talk bro. Whatever you do, do not turn this reformed hoe into your wife. If you insist in making make her wifey then you absolutely make sure that she conforms TO YOU, you NEVER conform to what a reform hoe wants you understand? You are doing her a favor by making her deviant ass wifey you understand?
It's about what YOU WANT, NOT what she wants you understand?
It's about what YOU WANT, NOT what she wants you understand?
SafeForWork
Banned
man you need to be getting your...
"i always wondered if i could find a chick dirty enough to let me ______________ on/at/to/over/around her"
on.
and you're crazy if you don't.
just force feed her birth control, god forbid that becomes the mother of your children.
"i always wondered if i could find a chick dirty enough to let me ______________ on/at/to/over/around her"
on.
and you're crazy if you don't.
just force feed her birth control, god forbid that becomes the mother of your children.