Honestly I struggle with whether or not to feel any sympathy for dudes who end up getting played. It says what you think about yourself if you choose to associate with a woman that has no goals, ambitions, and an independent/entrepreneurial spirit. I'm not talking about fake "I'm a strong independent woman that don't need no man" women here. I'm talking about a woman that has a job, is educated, and doesn't see men as parental figures to give them what they want. I'm talking about the kind of woman that raises your kids until they're old enough to go to school and then while they're there she's working a part-time job and then picks them up from school when they're done.
But as long as nikkas think "the ass is fat tho" and jealously try to cuff any woman they're attracted to, then they'll keep ending up in these situations. Value yourself and get together with another person that values and respects your hustle and wants to be equal with you.