Fellas, you ever sleep with a close female friend of yours?

Ashley Banks

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:usure: I don't see how you could share all these things and not be somewhat attracted to each other. And you better make sure he feels the same as you, cause he could be waiting to get his feelings hurt.

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Well he has a gf right now, so I think he still sees me as just a friend. If he did want more, I would probably be cool with. He's a good dude and he isn't ugly, so it could work.
 

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Yes, I have.. A few times

I ruined some great friendships :to:

Oh well, I'm not tripping. I'm married now and its not like my wife would be cool with me having like 6 fine female friends now, so if I didn't hit when I did i probably never would have. I have to pat myself on the bat for that one.
 

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there are a few problems and other reasons why i wouldn't. first of all, she has a boyfriend and the guy is already highly suspicious of our relationship (and i can tell every time i meet the guy too, and she's mentioned it to me as well). honestly, i don't even see why they're together, every time i see them, it seems like he's not having a good time and he doesn't want to be around her. as for her, she seems like she's uninterested in him when they're out. secondly, she reminds me too much of my first girlfriend. and that's not in the good sense. i feel like if i did get with her, it'd be like i was entering back into my old relationship from a certain point. and that point would be where things between me and my girlfriend were fading and i was becoming uninterested in the relationship or the redundancy of it.

plus, i've already slept with one of her friends, so i can see that being an issue in the future because it was already one when it happened. you could sense the jealous undertone the whole time i was dealing with her friend. so, to prevent another can of worms from opening, i just try to limit my interactions with her to curb the chances of something happening. i don't need that drama in my life considering the fact i'm trying to focus very hard on my music right now...

New material...:manny:
 
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3 months later Christmas Day....
*Phone vibrates in-coming txt*
"Hey I know you said you didnt want to talk to me anymore wutang but I just wanted to wish you a marry christmas. I really do miss our friendship and am sorry for the things I said. I really do hope we can be friends again...."

Your real name is wutang? :ohhh:
 

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Listen to this man.

She expects the baseline of yalls relationship to be that of friends, but you treated her like a jumpoff as soon as you smashed.

You probably did that because you didn't want to confuse things and yall start acting like a couple, but you went too far with it. Now she all :to:
Girls don't like to be treated like hoes, especially by someone they genuinely care about.


Now have a sit down with her, make up with her, and dont throw this FWB for life opportunity in the bushes.

I told her if we did it then nothing would change about our friendship in my eyes and she was saying the same. So after we had sex I continued to treat her as I would if we didn't have sex. She shoulda kept it 1 hunna wit me.
 

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99 percent of the time once you fukk a female friend,that friendship is going to fall apart within a matter of months.

It just all depends on how much you value the friendship. Ive made the mistake a few times.

As for the threesome thing,almost never a good idea with a gf. I remember an ex let me smash her friend and her in bed. Then we did it again with another friend. So I got too greedy and started pushing for it. Next time it happened Im smashing her friend for a bit then I realize,wait wheres my girls, I look down at the end of the bed and shes just sitting there crying.......







.......I pretended I didnt see and then kept fukking until I busted.

You damn dirty dog :comeon:
 

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99 percent of the time once you fukk a female friend,that friendship is going to fall apart within a matter of months.

It just all depends on how much you value the friendship. Ive made the mistake a few times.

As for the threesome thing,almost never a good idea with a gf. I remember an ex let me smash her friend and her in bed. Then we did it again with another friend. So I got too greedy and started pushing for it. Next time it happened Im smashing her friend for a bit then I realize,wait wheres my girls, I look down at the end of the bed and shes just sitting there crying.......


Funny story but I doubt it's real.




.......I pretended I didnt see and then kept fukking until I busted.
 

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99 percent of the time once you fukk a female friend,that friendship is going to fall apart within a matter of months.

It just all depends on how much you value the friendship. Ive made the mistake a few times.

As for the threesome thing,almost never a good idea with a gf. I remember an ex let me smash her friend and her in bed. Then we did it again with another friend. So I got too greedy and started pushing for it. Next time it happened Im smashing her friend for a bit then I realize,wait wheres my girls, I look down at the end of the bed and shes just sitting there crying.......







.......I pretended I didnt see and then kept fukking until I busted.


A separate thread could probably be made about threesomes that went wrong :snoop:
 
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