its a lot of nerd dudes selling dreams to lotta depressed cats. Lotta dudes who never had women, dudes fresh outta divorce, lotta cats with no expeirence.
Colombia is like the single mother and web cam capital of the world lol and dudes think they found love in 1 week. Most dudes aren't in Colombia long enough to break out of the gringo zone, and lotta these dudes who go down simping look like shyt and are licks so even if they wanted love they couldn't find it.
I always say if you can't get women in the USA you won't get women anywhere else, you will more so just be a sweet lick for someone whether its robbing/killing or them having you fund their family while they smash their local boyfriend while you are gone lol
Being depressed, being a nerd, not having a woman, being fresh out of a divorce, no experience. All of that is perfectly fine. It really is, you are where you are in life. Key is to admit who you are and where you are and move appropriately.
Not everyone is going to be pulling women left and right, in fact, the average dude isn't moving like that. Again, no problem. Just be honest and self-aware. Bang out as many beautiful young girls as you can.
Those are beautiful countries to get your rocks off in. Might also be beautiful countries to find some unorthodox situation but it all begins with self-awareness.