Fatherless Sons Meet Their DAD ....Emotions

[Elle Driver]

 

[BruhMayne]

 

[Michael's Black Son]

No wonder nikkas end up like this nikka

this motherfvcka is trying to hard.

 

[RealAssanova]

my father stared a whole new family without me

fukk my pops last time i seen that nikka was at 14.

He tried to fight me for slamming his door fukk that nikka.......

Only good thing he ever gave me was his height and the navy blue /gray/white LD dub zeros

bytch ass nikka stay calling and looking for me on instgrAM

I can sense the pain in your words bruh

 

[904Lurker]

I never said it wasn't, she is only partly to blame. It's just that on the coli, a lot posters fail to acknowledge the man's role in this.

I am not trying to be that guy.....but she is mostly to blame.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Tommy Sotomayor

 

[itsyoung!!]

God forbid the try to be a better man BEFORE the child is born. The child is here NOW. I will never understand why people who know the aren't worth a damn at least do the world and favor and use some GD birth control.

so are you on birth control

I dont know my mom or dad could honestly care less about meetin either one of those dirt bags

I heard I got an older sister though I wanna meet her

my mom was only 25 when she gave me up for adoption I prolly got hella lil siblings

 

[itsyoung!!]

Be 40 with daddy issues brehs

These old ass nikkas on Oprah trying to confront this old nikka, for what? nikka you got a button up and full beard you're doing alright . Get over it

it dont work like that bruh... when a parent abandon you it leaves you with some demons that maybe you just dont understand if you never been in that situation..

its great to hold your head up high and be like I did alright for myself so far even without them weak mafukkas

but then sometimes you get some henny in ya system and you start to be how come they dont want me man

 

[Wildin]

here is a dad justifying it

hes tryin to justify it. hes very articulate with his bullshytting. he basically said an extremely long version of "i dont know

I dont know who the black dude and woman were and what type of 'professionals' they are or are trying to be. I could barely watch because when that dude opened his mouth after 5 words i knew he was lying. I just didnt know if he'd be dumb about it.

Family is about being together. It doesnt matter your 'ready' or not. Your never ready, theres no perfect job, no set amount to have in a savings acct, no house, no amount of support, no perfect time, no window of opportunity.

Granted their are better circumstances to have a child than others. Obviously its better to have a job, and be able to feed and clothe your child.

Family life isnt about all the good times, or having the best things. Neither are relationships. Times of struggle and growth are needed to succeed. Otherwise anyone can find an opportune moment to leave on some "I wasnt ready, you werent ready" shyt.

That shyt doesnt even equate. How does not being adequate enough for a child and not being a part of their life fix/resolve the situation. Thats like if you leave for work in the morning and have 2 flat tires and just dont go to work, for like 20 years.

Its not his fault though, he has no heart, I dont meant heart like heart to love I mean heart like persistence, resilience. He's never followed through on anything in his life and likely up until he had a child he never had to.

on the bright side I got a new gif for when fatherless nikka comments are made,or when old nikkas say the darndest things

I swear that dude is the old lupe, he is even doin the

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

so are you on birth control

I dont know my mom or dad could honestly care less about meetin either one of those dirt bags

I heard I got an older sister though I wanna meet her

my mom was only 25 when she gave me up for adoption I prolly got hella lil siblings

When I have sex I use birth control which is why I don't have any child nor would I outside of marriage. I suggest the same for anyone. I believe in being the solution not just complaining about problems.That's what adults do.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Be 40 with daddy issues brehs

These old ass nikkas on Oprah trying to confront this old nikka, for what? nikka you got a button up and full beard you're doing alright . Get over it

even though I cant speak on it. I think its a feeling that never goes away. I have cousin who is pretty successful( good job, BMW 645, house with a driveway , no problem with females ) everything looks great on the outside, but about twice a yr he'll post something about how he wish his father was here, miss him etc... He's 31 and his dad left around the age of 10.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I joke about being a sociopath or just incapable of loving but I honestly don't give a shyt that my father was never around. That's normal so I've never missed dude or gave a shyt. My dad's presence in my life has been to give me gifts for christmas or my birthday and then I'd never see dude again. I basically saw dude as a business deal. My dad will literally come to my mom's block and speak to random old neighbors from when he used to live here but won't come by and while my mother is bothered by it, it's just not something I care about. I find it interesting that people have daddy issues and really miss people that were never around. I've always been so into myself that the actions of other people never really bothered me.

My mother and my father divorced when I was like 4 or 5 so I never really experienced a father in my life so I'm sure it's different then people who's father left them at age 10 or so. To be honest, even if I was at home my Thankgiving and Christmas holidays were normally spent alone. I had a sister who spent time with her in laws family during he holidays. I'd eat dinner with my mom but normally I'd be in my room playing watching basketball, making music, playing video games just doing me for the majority of the time when we weren't eating so I tend not to value family in general as opposed to my mom.

Relationships, whether family or friends only survive if you invest in them with time and if you didn't make the effort when I was young I don't care now.

 

[Trillion]

even though I cant speak on it. I think its a feeling that never goes away. I have cousin who is pretty successful( good job, BMW 645, house with a driveway , no problem with females ) everything looks great on the outside, but about twice a yr he'll post something about how he wish his father was here, miss him etc... He's 31 and his dad left around the age of 10.

Deep

 

[Data-Hawk]

I joke about being a sociopath or just incapable of loving but I honestly don't give a shyt that my father was never around. That's normal so I've never missed dude or gave a shyt. My dad's presence in my life has been to give me gifts for christmas or my birthday and then I'd never see dude again. I basically saw dude as a business deal. My dad will literally come to my mom's block and speak to random old neighbors from when he used to live here but won't come by and while my mother is bothered by it, it's just not something I care about. I find it interesting that people have daddy issues and really miss people that were never around. I've always been so into myself that the actions of other people never really bothered me.

My mother and my father divorced when I was like 4 or 5 so I never really experienced a father in my life so I'm sure it's different then people who's father left them at age 10 or so. To be honest, even if I was at home my Thankgiving and Christmas holidays were normally spent alone. I had a sister who spent time with her in laws family during he holidays. I'd eat dinner with my mom but normally I'd be in my room playing watching basketball, making music, playing video games just doing me for the majority of the time when we weren't eating so I tend not to value family in general as opposed to my mom.

Relationships, whether family or friends only survive if you invest in them with time and if you didn't make the effort when I was young I don't care now.

Naw breh, you sound like you have the same issues and dont know it...

 

[Box Cutta]

No wonder nikkas end up like this nikka

We expose ourselves too damn much...keep this shyt in house for once....

I don't relate...parents been married my whole life and I'm *still* getting support from them....I can't imagine not being the same way....

But I'll still be implicated in this mess, as will my pops...