Fatherless Sons Meet Their DAD ....Emotions
- Thread starter Trillion
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i aint grow up wit my dad n dese vids dont move me, i never really cared about it, in fact i prefered it
Lord Piffington
Cacnificent #euswag
Damn I lost pops to cancer last year and I can hardly cope.. I wonder how these poor kids must´v felt all of their life.. shyt breaks my heart.
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
I'm fortunate, been wit my kids since the cradle
Where are all the men that bash black women in the weave threads at
They will come and say "Well, that bytch knew he wasn't shyt. She chose him so it her fault he's fatherless." They will always find a way to blame black women for the entire situation.
I'll never understand it.
I wanna think it's not the woman's fault either...
I wanna think it's not the woman's fault either...
RealAssanova
Ethnic Vagitarian
My father been away most of my life workin overseas to provide for us. Use to see him every summer wit da rest of da family and he used to come down once a year too.
I was raised mostly by my mom and sisters.
Still won't change da fact dat he's my old man and he been there when i needed him. Plus the fact that i'm his only son and i let him down in certain instances got me
Father your sons breh's. Dats da shyt i won't EVER play wit. Not on my life.
I was raised mostly by my mom and sisters.
Still won't change da fact dat he's my old man and he been there when i needed him. Plus the fact that i'm his only son and i let him down in certain instances got me
Father your sons breh's. Dats da shyt i won't EVER play wit. Not on my life.
me tooMy father been away most of my life workin overseas to provide for us. Use to see him every summer wit da rest of da family and he used to come down once a year too.
I was raised mostly by my mom and sisters.
Still won't change da fact dat he's my old man and he been there when i needed him. Plus the fact that i'm his only son and i let him down in certain instances got me
Father your sons breh's. Dats da shyt i won't EVER play wit. Not on my life.
MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
Just have the oldest/wisest elders play match maker.Personally, I'm not opposed to arranged marriages.I don't see love as some happily ever after/fairytale bullshyt where I depend on another person to make me feel "happy"/ all mushy inside.
It's a business operation.Where two people come together to create a environment of peace and harmony wherein they both can grow/ reach their goals together.Then ultimately, it becomes about sustaining healthy families.
In that version of "love", if you put the right man & woman together, I believe they can learn to "love" one another.
But people feel entitled to happiness.They wanna feel the butterflies in their belly and all that old superficial shyt.In a selfish world, a selfless institution such ass marriage is doomed from the start.It's a pain in the ass.The divorce stats reflect that.
Most people only give a fukk about themselves and what will make them happy.fukk sacrificing for the greater good
I refuse to allow my future children to grow up like I did or be on Oprah's show like these dudes. fukk THAT. The cycle will end with me.
fatherless generation
Malik
Superstar
Its blame on both ends. Women need to have better standards for who they procreate with. Women choose baby daddies like, like....finding someone to dance with at a club
Like having a baby is not a deep and permanent and irrevocable bond. You need to make sure that if you're carrying a man's child that he's serious about you and having a future with you.For men......any man that abandons his child is a b*tch. Point blank. You think that because we rag on single mothers for choosing bad men that we excuse those bad men and their actions? We don't. Ain't no man gonna ever say in real life to another man that he's a deadbeat and has five kids he abandoned.....deadbeat dads don't announce that information because they know other men will shame their weak azz. It takes a really sh*tty azz person to abandon his own flesh and blood. Even if you hate the woman you got pregnant, that's still your son or daughter. You don't even have to have too much contact with the mother, just be there for the child you created.
I feel two ways about this. If the dude was with the women throughout pregnancy and was acting like they was gonna be a family and everything he's a coward for stepping out but if the woman got pregnant by some dude she barely knew who definitely didn't want kids it's her fault. The child loses in both situations, and it's unfortunate.