It's either this or he was doing the shyt where he was providing but she didn't put him on papers and she probably realized that she gets more if she puts him on papers.
Father don't want to see his Son because Mother put him on child support.
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It's either this or he was doing the shyt where he was providing but she didn't put him on papers and she probably realized that she gets more if she puts him on papers.
Nigerianwonder
Superstar
The court system directly effects you and your relationship with your kids moron. So if a woman is using the courts against you then it will impact everything in your life including when you can see your kids.
If you sit back and let a petty/ scorned woman destroy you wont be able to take care of yourself and not just your kids by the time the courts are done. Lawyers and family court cost lots of money for men. Everyone doesnt have 10k to 20k to drop on legal fees at the drop of a hat whenever a woman drags them to court. Now thats 10 to 20k you spending on lawyers that might have been the money you were spending on your kids.
MoveForward
Veteran
I wouldn’t do it but I understand… I’m on child support and I have 50/50 custody, the shyt leaves a bad taste in my mouth every time I send it. Sometimes I send it a few days late out of spite…
Telling the kids that sh*t is dirty and he needs his ass whooped but CS ruins a man’s life. A lot of times the bm has another nikka that they’re living with, so your money is being funneled into his household. Then when you do get your kid, they’re kids so they want to do fun shyt and they ask for things. Your ability to be a father is pretty much down the drain and they build some resentment for you. A lot of men on CS spend their free time working extra hours, so that they can enjoy their life as well.
Broken homes aren’t like the shyt you see on tv, it’s a filthy vicious thing.
Telling the kids that sh*t is dirty and he needs his ass whooped but CS ruins a man’s life. A lot of times the bm has another nikka that they’re living with, so your money is being funneled into his household. Then when you do get your kid, they’re kids so they want to do fun shyt and they ask for things. Your ability to be a father is pretty much down the drain and they build some resentment for you. A lot of men on CS spend their free time working extra hours, so that they can enjoy their life as well.
Broken homes aren’t like the shyt you see on tv, it’s a filthy vicious thing.
Y’all choose to be sympathetic about the most backward bs with the ‘to each his own’ ‘I understand’ .. you don’t say shyt like that to your kids.. I refuse to believe y’all have any young children in your life .. these responses are willd
He picked her though.
We do say that same shyt to women when she picks a bum to knock her up
I guess it depends on the situation. I was paying 1500 a month for two kids.
Bob Loblaw
Superstar
Pos
This
As someone who recently experienced custody disputes, it’s extremely tough initially. The mother goes out of her way to be as rude and disrespectful as possible, but if you truly love your children you learn to just ignore her and focus on them. All that shyt she’s doing WILL hurt her in the long run if you’re keeping proof of it (My attorney told me to only communicate through text or email for this reason)
There is no circumstance where I would ever say anything like that to my child. Doesn’t matter how his mom acts or what type of day or week I’m having. They don’t forget shyt like that
