Effeminate Men...

[Lady.Libra.]

Are effeminate mannerisms ever OK in a man who has expressed interest in you?

If other qualities are solid and present & he isn't gay/DL are you willing to overlook:
-bytchiness
-Argumentative
-Gossips
-Petty
-Animated
-Daintiness
-Attitudinal/Moody/Emotionally high-strung
-Constantly talks about women in a critical way
-High-pitched voice
-Rolls his eyes/sighs heavily
-Beats you getting mad...when he's dead wrong
-Bonus -What if you observed him talking, on his cell, to an old guy friend and he started popping his gum, giggling, blinking more, grinning nonstop & twirling his foot (Sugarfoot? )
-Etc.

ETA - All these traits are exhibited by one man.

[RIP - PRINCE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO GOT A PASS]

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

no

RihHuh

• Fun Sized Psycho
• Jul 18, 2017

 

[EARFQUAKE]

-bytchiness
-Argumentative
-Gossips
-Petty
-Daintiness
-Attitudinal/Moody/Emotionally high-strung
-Constantly talks about women in a critical way

I'm so used to a lot of the men on this website doing this that I don't even consider it emasculate anymore; it's just in some people's nature to be messy

 

[Aphrodite]

Abuse is NEVER ok. If he is effeminate or masculine or whatever the fukk.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Abuse is NEVER ok. If he is effeminate or masculine or whatever the fukk.

I think she meant getting mad before the woman.

. U are right though.

 

[Black Cobain]

A lot of "men" here are pretty damn effeminate, the fact that nikkas gossip, worship other men and say "here's the tea" unchecked while being narrow minded says a ton

 

[Aphrodite]

I can deal with a guy who cries. I know there's this misconception like it's feminine or wrong for guys to express emotions/feelings or cry. I can't deal with it daily or every other day. But in moderation (the 'crying') is fine.

I don't like self doubters (men or women).

& hypermasculine men are typically over compensating for other reasons: height, sexuality, dikk size, validation from other men, etc etc etc.
& I don't want a bandwagoner/follower.

Be you.

Nothing is wrong with someone who is balanced.

Don't gotta 'fit' a mold.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I think she meant getting mad before the woman.

. U are right though.

Right.

 

[Black Cobain]

I can't deal with it daily or every other day. But in moderation (the 'crying') is fine.

I'm working on it

 

[L. Murphy]

Sorry but no

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

fukk no.

 

[Krazy K]

Are effeminate mannerisms ever OK in a man who has expressed interest in you?

If other qualities are solid and present & he isn't gay/DL are you willing to overlook:
-bytchiness
-Argumentative
-Gossips
-Petty
-Animated
-Daintiness
-Attitudinal/Moody/Emotionally high-strung
-Constantly talks about women in a critical way
-High-pitched voice
-Rolls his eyes/sighs heavily
-Beats you getting mad...when he's dead wrong
-Bonus -What if you observed him talking, on his cell, to an old guy friend and he started popping his gum, giggling, blinking more, grinning nonstop & twirling his foot (Sugarfoot? )
-Etc.

ETA - All these traits are exhibited by one man.

[RIP - PRINCE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO GOT A PASS]

that nikka gay as fukk

 

[Aphrodite]

that nikka gay as fukk

I didnt even pay attention to that part. Good lord. 1 man with those traits?

 

[Krazy K]

I didnt even pay attention to that part. Good lord. 1 man with those traits?

apparently there's women out there who like these traits

 

[Noname2014]

I actually don't mind a guy that will watch chic flicks and romance movies with me, I think it's
cute. But those other traits are not attractive, I might as well just date one of my girl friends if I wanted those qualities....