I was. It was just so fukking stupid that I had to ask the most basic question which is essentially what difference does it make? Since if you weren't married like over half of the people in this country you would be in even worse position.
Eboni K Williams: “We want black sperm but pickings are slim. Single motherhood by choice!” UPDATE: Eboni Is Now Preganant via IVF.
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Breh… I came to this exact same conclusion after a few posts with that guy,
I dont know what single has to do with this topic.
We in here talking about choosing a partner and levels of partnership.
I think you're conflating the objectives of the aforementioned groups you spoke about.GMB and PAWGSet are the 2 most unserious groups when it comes the creation and nurturing of the nuclear Black family.
Yet, those same brehs run into these threads with tier pitchforks over a rich woman deciding to do motherhood on her own... and wanna to be taken seriously.
Don't be abreh at the club patrolling for whooty on Saturday; but wanna pontificate about how Eboni K. Williams aint shyt on Wednesday. Don't be in the threads talking about how a woman gotta fukk before the first date; but cry over the fact that this lady would rather choose single motherhood over wading through a dating pool rot with Coli Brehs at every corner.
If Coli Brehs were real about Black families, more would have them. Few would shyt on the idea of them in favor of, "Get your passport", and "Black women are undesirable." This place would not look like the c00n-N-Goon Retardland it does now.
c00ning in other threads, while getting angry and pointing the finger in this thread because "Black Women BADDDDddDDddd!!!1!!!!!!!" is an irony too palpable not to call out.
PAWGset dudes could still be for forming a nuclear family. The kids would be mixed but let's be honest society is gonna view them as black. How is that as bad or worse than single Motherhood when families are being formed?
For GMB brehs (as myself) you have more of a valid argument as we are forgoing forming families with these women and just choosing to be lifelong bachelors which is bad to an extent I can admit because families are not being formed. However as a long as a dude isn't getting chicks pregnant and making single parent homes is it really as bad as Single motherhood?
Single Motherhood handicaps children and puts them at a severe disadvantage to dual parent households. They hurt our communities. There are no benefits or good statistics about these households and everyone that prospers from them are heavily beating the odds. You're depriving the child of needed resources
Most marriages fail because of finance true or false and 70% - 80% of divorces are filed by women? Correct?
Why do most marriages fail because of finance when the woman is filing for divorce? If money isn't an issue with women, why is it that money is the cause of many/most failed marriages in the black community?
But you are advocating by saying most/many women are not walking away from their sick husbands, but yet they are walking away/filing for divorce from a healthy husband because of money many of the times?
Which goes back to what I am standing on, women do not want to pay ALL of the Bills for a long period of time, 9months to a year
Buddy said the husband gets sick for 2 months with NO income, she will stay, I agree, I'm saying if the husband get sick for 7 months on up with NO income, then it will turn ugly. This is when he's sick
You have women divorcing their husband for financial reason and the husband is fully healthy, but you are trying to convince us that women stay when they have to pay ALL of the bills for a long time
Which one is it? One mic or Oochie Wally
Money and women go hand and hand, if the money stops coming in from the husband, the clock is ticking. Sick or not sick.
Thats because it isn't distrbuted evenly amongst all workers.Only 40% of workers have paid short term disability and 35% have paid long term disability. 10 PTO days and 10 sick days is not going to cover a year of not working - what we were talking about
Short-term and long-term disability insurance for civilian workers in 2020 : The Economics Daily: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics
Short-term disability insurance was available to 40 percent of civilian workers in March 2020, and long-term disability insurance was available to 35 percent. Access to these benefits varies by wage group. Nine percent of workers in the lowest wage group had access to long-term disability...www.bls.gov
The State of Paid Family and Medical Leave in the U.S. in 2024
This fact sheet provides an overview of paid family and medical leave laws in the United States.
www.americanprogress.org
Over half of full time employees have Short term disability. Not exactly a super lucky person unless youre a bum who cant keep a job.
why do y'all engage in these convos with women? lol they are not here for honest convo and Men and Women shouldn't be debating. Men need to simply look at the actions in an environment collect data, and adjust.
The poster who said "nikkas mad" is trying to run a misdirection when this thread is men analyzing information and confirming adjustments need to be made.
At 25 I would've said the corporate woman all day
In my 40s, Walmart worker and it's not even close. Me and the Walmart lady can retire together, house is paid off just help me grow this garden and take care of some animals. We never have to work again.
Corporate woman not gonna do that. She has high value meetings to go to all over town and you have to go with her and u better spend more than the next man on your outfit or you making her look bad. Your vacations need to be better than her friends and co workers. It never stops it. U can't retire, u have to finance her adventures and them outfits and day brunches with her friends ain't cheap so her money is her money. Your money is y'all money
Why y'all think all these women are single in their late 30s early 40s. They nightmares to deal with once u get past the initial honeymoon. I speak from experience I'm taking the Walmart worker and cheaper groceries
In my 40s, Walmart worker and it's not even close. Me and the Walmart lady can retire together, house is paid off just help me grow this garden and take care of some animals. We never have to work again.
Corporate woman not gonna do that. She has high value meetings to go to all over town and you have to go with her and u better spend more than the next man on your outfit or you making her look bad. Your vacations need to be better than her friends and co workers. It never stops it. U can't retire, u have to finance her adventures and them outfits and day brunches with her friends ain't cheap so her money is her money. Your money is y'all money
Why y'all think all these women are single in their late 30s early 40s. They nightmares to deal with once u get past the initial honeymoon. I speak from experience I'm taking the Walmart worker and cheaper groceries
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
There are 100 other things that go into making a bad financial situation toxic, being in love with your sick husband is not why women file for divorce. You’re literally trying to put any financial hardship into - bad finances = divorce, that’s not how it works.
I don't know breh,
This is why folks will never progress, this mindset from these women were not like this in the 60s and on up
This shyt ain't hard to understand, they in here making it hard just to argue against literal facts and statistics supporting what we're saying
No they're not 100 other things.
That love shyt is out of the window when it comes to survival for women under 35, hell most over 35.
Women leave men because of money reasons. The End.
Like I said Western men are the most egalitarian humans on earth, we actually see women as equals lol (this is why the world takes advantage of us and women of all races see us as a lick).
Watch these women in silence and learn so you know what to look for when you make decisions in life. When dealing with Women it is supposed to be on your terms which should have protections you built. The issue is dudes try to play on a woman's terms not realizing women are illogical thus their rules change by the second hence they are never happy and will divorce a stupid nikka who think he did everything he could while she felt "mentally abused" whatever the fukk that means.
Also GMB is a reaction to the environment women have createdGMB and PAWGSet are the 2 most unserious groups when it comes the creation and nurturing of the nuclear Black family.
Yet, those same brehs run into these threads with tier pitchforks over a rich woman deciding to do motherhood on her own... and wanna to be taken seriously.
Don't be a
If Coli Brehs were real about Black families, more would have them. Few would shyt on the idea of them in favor of, "Get your passport", and "Black women are undesirable." This place would not look like the c00n-N-Goon Retardland it does now.
c00ning in other threads, while getting angry and pointing the finger in this thread because "Black Women BADDDDddDDddd!!!1!!!!!!!" is an irony too palpable not to call out.
Men wouldn't be on this shyt if women were cooperative and putting the full court press on nikkas to get married
You're making it seem like men just started out like this