Dude Became a Baby Daddy... Stock Just Went to Zero

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Story sounds funny.

Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo

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Myself. fukk 12(1)!
I have never heard of women preferring single dads..

Lol.

I have never dated a man with kids, so I can't really speak on the experience
It sounds like a bunch of bullshyt. Why would they want to take on someone else's baggage, ESPECIALLY if they don't have kids themselves? :mjlol:
 

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Myself. fukk 12(1)!
You ain't know? A breh will an angry bm and back child support is the man of our dreams. Lol
When I was single, I sure as hell wasn't looking for a guy with kids, much less preferring one. Unless there are some extreme mitigating circumstances, the notion of a childless person preferring a person that already has children makes no sense to me. They are already encumbered; that "ready-made" family BS is for the birds.
 

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When I was single, I sure as hell wasn't looking for a guy with kids, much less preferring one. Unless there are some extreme mitigating circumstances, the notion of a childless person preferring a person that already has children makes no sense to me. They are already encumbered; that "ready-made" family BS is for the birds.

Right. Thread is full of delusional men juelzing and recanting porno scenes rather than accept the consequence of their poor decisions and future poor decisions.

You hate to see it.
 

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@CarmelBarbie now that I think about it most women I know don't mind dating a man with a kid as long as the baby momma isnt crazy. This one of those topics that you will hear more from the men say that don't want to deal with a women with kids which is there right just like if a women don't want to do the same she has the right. The problem is the world is FULL of double standard people need to get over themselves .....funny cause I don't hear men in real life bring this type of shyt up ...usually the roster has a good mix :ehh:

I’ve had a ton of female friends over the years that we’re very vocal about not wanting single fathers. Some of these women even had kids themselves. Trust me, men really aren’t the only ones saying it. I’m sure if you went on LSA there would be a similar sentiment toward men with kids.

Most childless people prefer a childless mate. Yes, I do know women that are okay with single dads. Hell, my sons father has pulled plenty when he’s out with my son. He has a keychain that has a picture of him and my son together, and women love that. He finds it funny. I do too.

I used to use my son to try to get rid of brehs I didn’t like, on some “hey I have a child, bet that will get you to leave me alone”—it didn’t. I’ve never been rejected or ruled out for having a kid, but that doesn’t mean much... the reality is that these personal stories from brehs and brehettes where their child didn’t matter doesn’t negate the fact that on average most single childless people want other single childless people. Women don’t want to deal with crazy baby mama drama, and all that other shyt involved.
 

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Another case of wishful thinking. I'll add you to the list.

:mjlol:
she names herself "the stripper" talks about her butt enhancements and is known on here for being a stripper, has her pics blasted on here of various parts, and her place of employment at the stripper shack - on a majority male site. of course that equates to "popularity".
what kind of analogy is that? need to separate popularity from notoriety, and attention whoring. this is the same site that said a white escort was trending on twitter for 40 likes and repeating what black women say on a regular basis. I'm sure that 90% of these dudes are not "crushed" over this shyt as opposed to being disturbed and annoyed that some low rent sex worker with a below average face, over the age of 35, thinks that she's in a position to speak on such matters in a throwback position to the man that she describes as if that's an accomplishment. if she's trolling - that shows how much of a self centered, attention needy type that she is; if she's not trolling - she ethered herself for conversing with dude in the first place knowing he had a new bm bc he wasn't feeling her out the gate; she was a convenient choice for a charity case, that night.
:deadmanny::deadrose:

You just blasting cannons on the remains of her credibility. Straight ruthless.
 
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