Dude Became a Baby Daddy... Stock Just Went to Zero

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I saw right thru this because I do this all the time being persistent with trying to get the p*ssy that got away.

Basically. You wasn't on his radar and he was more than likely fukking with other bytches since he wasn't getting p*ssy from you. No sparks flew because either he ain't think you was cute enough to chase or he still looking to get p*ssy from you and was just flipping thru his contacts list. Sparks only happen when there is attraction, either both or one of yall ugly.
He calling you up because you probably the only one who desperate enough to respond to a nikka you ain't spoke to in a year. I'm sure he didn't call you and said "I'm a baby daddy" but rather said "I got a kid now" but you want to show your disappointment and displeasure in a breh having a kid and giving him the the title of "baby daddy" to belittle and shyt on the breh..You had some interest in dude at one point and thinks he cool, if not you would have blocked his number a year ago and kept it moving but you didn't.

He probably remembers you like to eat so by inviting you to dinner to feed you is his way to Simp and get the p*ssy that got away. You gassing yourself up thinking a dude who ain't speak to you in a year now wants you to be a mom to his kid. How that sound?

Stop it. Dude just want the p*ssy.

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:mjlol:OP ain't shyt. She knew what she was doing. Was nothing but a bait thread to get #GMB all riled up.

Only brehs are allowed to turn down single moms. The other way around is blasphemy :troll:

How dare you exercise your freedom of choice to not date a single parent :usure:

Constantly tell brehettes to choose better with men they date then get mad when they actually do, brehs
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I’m going to be honest with you nikkas, nikkas stock do not drop after having a baby. I don’t know who you nikkas hang out with but I’m speaking from experience with dealing with women and dudes I know that deal with women. That shyt do not turn women off. It is not the same as being a single mother.matter of fact nikkas with kids have The most hoes.

Again, never trust what women say, only their actions.

In some situations, sure. Plenty of women don't care. But plenty of women do care, and having a kid can make you go from a catch to nothing in their eyes. Baby mama/daddy drama is a hassle...lot of people don't want to deal with that shyt. And while there are women who don't mind, there are also women who view this as a sign that you aren't serious, she won't have you all to herself, and your financial situation is gonna be impacted (child support).

And before some alt right breh hits me with some bullshyt about how having a child makes you more appealing because women will know you can pass on your seed/genes/whatever...stop it. If you're a normal+attractive dude, women are going to assume your dikk works until proven otherwise. Having children is not some evolution based cheat code to make a woman wet for you.
 

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Dude been trying to get with me for the longest but no sparks ever happened. He was cool though. I haven't talked to him in a year and he just called me and told me he's now a baby daddy and wants to go to dinner.

He's probably looking for a mom for his kid. I think Imma block him #. Seems like the right thing to do.

One star for posted hoe babble .

Before there was the 2017 Astros, there were the 2002 Lakers :unimpressed:

Man, miss me with that "GOAT" franchise huffing and puffing . Truth hurts , doesn't it?


So if no sparks happened why’re you still entertaining him slim

No sparks ever happened but you still want to go dinner with him?


If even @™BlackPearl The Empress™ posts something that can only be described as illogical 'hoe' (not saying you a hoe) babble.. damn.
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We make the mistake as men of approaching and digesting what a woman says in a logical manner. But that shyt often makes NO sense and when you point it out you'll get some vague reply like "you need to chill" or "that's YOUR problem if you don't get it".

#nohoebabble2020
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forum full of bitter dudes who love shytting on single black mothers...catching feelings at the mere idea of a black woman blocking a dude who just had a baby and is already trying to find another woman's time to waste.
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Right. Some of the brehs on here who talk shyt about single moms are actually single fathers or men who aren’t married to the women they’ve had kids with(which means at any point when shyt goes to the left.....they can end up as single dads too)

Anyway on here brehs think that rejection over kids really only applies to single moms. The coli says desirable good men reject single moms all the time(which hasn’t happened to me yet, but understanding why brehs feel the way they feel, I respect their thoughts on it and KIM). energy is different for single dads, here. Besides the issue of child support and dealing with crazy bm, no one talks about the other shyt involved, like the childless women that don’t want to fukk with single dads.

My childless friends straight refuse men with kids because they don’t want the bm
drama, don’t want to play step mom, don’t want to deal with the baby daddy spending too much family time with the baby mama they probably still fukking and want their first kid to be their husbands first kid too. It makes sense. Cant hate on it.:manny:
 
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In my family they call men with kids dudes with “ready made families”. And I know PLENTY of chicks who don’t want em. Baby mama drama, having to split already limited resources, the process of childbirth aint new and exciting, dudes still fukking baby mamas, emotional baggage to say the least.
It ain’t a dealbreaker for everybody but I know plenty that ain’t wit it.



More than likely the dude doesnt have custody of his kids.

Only issue u gonna have is hoping he doesnt have a jealous bm.

Dudes got to help provide and deal with the kid on a daily basis and possibly also deal with a woman crazy bd.

So woman shouldnt trip to hard if a man has kids. Most women are typically only worried about the bm but really u should try to avoid too much communication wit her
 

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I saw right thru this because I do this all the time being persistent with trying to get the p*ssy that got away.

Basically. You wasn't on his radar and he was more than likely fukking with other bytches since he wasn't getting p*ssy from you. No sparks flew because either he ain't think you was cute enough to chase or he still looking to get p*ssy from you and was just flipping thru his contacts list. Sparks only happen when there is attraction, it's either both or one of yall ugly.
He calling you up because you probably the only one who desperate enough to respond to a nikka you ain't spoke to in a year. I'm sure he didn't call you and said "I'm a baby daddy" but rather said "I got a kid now" but you want to show your disappointment and displeasure in a breh having a kid and giving him the title of "baby daddy" to belittle and shyt on the breh..You had some interest in dude at one point and thinks he cool, if not you would have blocked his number a year ago and kept it moving but you didn't.

He probably remembers you like to eat so by inviting you to dinner to feed you is his way to Simp and get the p*ssy that got away. You gassing yourself up thinking a dude who ain't speak to you in a year now wants you to be a mom to his kid. How that sound?

Stop it. Dude just want the p*ssy.
Oh fukkkkkk :whew::deadmanny::deadrose::deadrose::damn:
 

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Right. Some of the brehs on here who talk shyt about single moms are actually single fathers or men who aren’t married to the women they’ve had kids with(which means at any point when shyt goes to the left.....they can end up as single dads too)

Anyway on here brehs think that rejection over kids really only applies to single moms. The coli says desirable good men reject single moms all the time(which hasn’t happened to me yet, but understanding why brehs feel the way they feel, I respect their thoughts on it and KIM). energy is different for single dads, here. Besides the issue of child support and dealing with crazy bm, no one talks about the other shyt involved, like the childless women that don’t want to fukk with single dads.

My childless friends straight refuse men with kids because they don’t want the bm
drama, don’t want to play step mom, don’t want to deal with the baby daddy spending too much family time with the baby mama they probably still fukking and want their first kid to be their husbands first kid too. It makes sense. Cant hate on it.:manny:
Keep it real if a dude is successful him having kids don’t matter just like if a woman looks good her kids ain’t going to matter.
 

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Dude been trying to get with me for the longest but no sparks ever happened. He was cool though. I haven't talked to him in a year and he just called me and told me he's now a baby daddy and wants to go to dinner.

He's probably looking for a mom for his kid. I think Imma block him #. Seems like the right thing to do.
A real woman would step up. :mjgrin:
 

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No man ever even came close to me :dame:

How's life being some random cumbucket for some dude who ignores you?
Back to making threads for attention, I see. I know this ugly unfortunate unwanted stripper bytch is not out here trying to being choosy like she’s not a last resort or back dated option
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She spends years being a stripper, advertising the fact that she’s a sex worker, years showing her face, bragging about her build a body on the coli and stillllll has no man while maneuvering the intricacies of dating, imma pray for these hos - the white escort one fresh off an abortion and this one delusional about men with babies - these coli sexcorts on a different type of time.
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I think it really just depends on the situation. I met some women who were turned on by it, some who were indifferent and some who were completely turned off. It really just depends on where they are in life. I do think that a single mom is less appealing on average tho
Again, in my experience this isn’t true.
 

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In my family they call men with kids dudes with “ready made families”. And I know PLENTY of chicks who don’t want em. Baby mama drama, having to split already limited resources, the process of childbirth aint new and exciting, dudes still fukking baby mamas, emotional baggage to say the least.
It ain’t a dealbreaker for everybody but I know plenty that ain’t wit it.
I hear you, but in most cases this isn’t necessarily true in most cases.
 

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I saw right thru this because I do this all the time being persistent with trying to get the p*ssy that got away.

Basically. You wasn't on his radar and he was more than likely fukking with other bytches since he wasn't getting p*ssy from you. No sparks flew because either he ain't think you was cute enough to chase or he still looking to get p*ssy from you and was just flipping thru his contacts list. Sparks only happen when there is attraction, it's either both or one of yall ugly.
He calling you up because you probably the only one who desperate enough to respond to a nikka you ain't spoke to in a year. I'm sure he didn't call you and said "I'm a baby daddy" but rather said "I got a kid now" but you want to show your disappointment and displeasure in a breh having a kid and giving him the title of "baby daddy" to belittle and shyt on the breh..You had some interest in dude at one point and thinks he cool, if not you would have blocked his number a year ago and kept it moving but you didn't.

He probably remembers you like to eat so by inviting you to dinner to feed you is his way to Simp and get the p*ssy that got away. You gassing yourself up thinking a dude who ain't speak to you in a year now wants you to be a mom to his kid. How that sound?

Stop it. Dude just want the p*ssy.
no lies told in this post.
 
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