People are gonna laugh at Goop, but I get what she's saying.
I grew up around wyte females from living in the deep suburbs.
They really do lack self esteem on an individual basis. They're very much locked into being the image of what the wyte male gaze thinks they should be. If they stray from it (physically politically socially), they catch hell.
This is why it's so easy for them to be depressed at 24 cuz they're not married with a house and a dog and 5 kids .... cry wyte tears over stupid shyt... or why they turn into super Karen's when they see somebody else doing what they want without regard to THEIR own pre set rules.
I'm not saying FBA are perfect, but we tend to know that what we do isn't gonna please everybody. Sometimes shyt don't work-out but u gotta keep living. So fuqit... we gonna do us an hope we land on our feet. The strong Black woman trope.
Majority of wyte women aren't built like that.
I will say this current generation is more into "soft life" for both black men and women ... I get it. Being the "strong ones" can get exhausting.
