Don't Marry Career Women

Rawtid

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My Question is

Who are the people who does these studies and the people who takes these studies and there personal life experiences. because i bet these people lives are fukked up

Only reason i'm not into marriage is the financial side of things rather positive or negative ( more time than not it's monetary issues ) and i have enough problems of my own and just to add more debt or even lesser my debt ( which will help a lot ) but it doesn't equate to my freedom of doing what and what ever when i want

i'm not against people who do get married and have success, but that's not my arena to be in

Date someone that's not in debt or serious about paying it off. Also having two incomes means you both can pay your debts off more quickly together than you can apart. I don't really see it being hard to get on the same page about money either but you have to have the conversations while you're dating. Getting someone ideals about money and how they handle it is not the same as asking them how much they make either.
 

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My mom's pulling more money than my dad and has always been ambitious. She cooks, takes care of her home, always took care of me and my dad and held it down and would never cheat because she's not an immoral human being.

But go ahead and marry a bimbo though. If that's your type, you're more likely to be pretty basic yourself.

thats not a fact.
 

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But not all Eastern Europeans value marriage the same. Bulgarians are sometimes known to step out on their marriages...my dad has a few friends who have mistresses...their wives have a side man...but they never divorce...they have their flings then get back together. In Macedonia (where my mom is from) that is completely unacceptable and shameful. Not sure how it is in Poland, Russia etc...but I know we can't all be grouped together because I see the differences between Macedonian and Bulgarian women and men all the time since I'm mixed...Macedonian men are more controlling and like to exercise their masculinity whereas Bulgarian men are more laid-back and give their women a bit more freedom and independence.
But even you have to admit in those parts of the world, women are less likely to initiate divorces....
 

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But even you have to admit in those parts of the world, women are less likely to initiate divorces....
But the US/Canada are melting pots...so you have people of ALL cultures living here.

Also, when you marry within your culture, it doesn't mean that your marriage will last, but most likely, you'll have more basic things in common (you'll like similar foods, follow the same religion, share the same holidays and so forth).
 

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No hoodrats, no university chicks, no career chicks, no unemployed chicks, wtf is left. Mail order bride, a chick fresh outta indonesian village no shoes, no nothin.

Then next year there's going to be a report about how indonesian villagers are 4% times more likely to cheat and seek child support. Or how 5 out of 9 had anal sex with their previous partner. These fools need to relax.
 

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No hoodrats, no university chicks, no career chicks, no unemployed chicks, wtf is left. Mail order bride, a chick fresh outta indonesian village no shoes, no nothin.

Then next year there's going to be a report about how indonesian villagers are 4% times more likely to teach and seek child sport. Or how 5 out of 9 have anal sex with their previous partner. These fools need to relax.


@BlackieRobinson tell them how it is :mjpls:
 

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:troll:I need a chick that makes more money than me so she can take care of me, help me pay my debts, buy me the latest car, and let me work less or none at all so i can be a house husband. And after I become a stay at home dad, if she doesnt continually make more money and let me walk all over her, i'll divorce her get half of all assets, and take the marital house along with child support.
 

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Look every body's situations are different

U have a ton of successful marriages and horrible marriages among people with careers..

i can do a study with 100 people and say

the marriages between career oriented people ( meaning doctors, lawyers, executives, etc ) compared to low earning married couples the career oriented people tend to have more of a problem on there marriage with money compared to low earning people who biggest problem is cheating on each other.

it's not a fact just like like majority of these studies that are done.

It's like saying all athletes or entertainers cheat on there spouses, off the fact u see 4 or 5 couples on TMZ OR ON THE COVER OF NEWSWEEK
 
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