Without a backbone/foundation how do you build without collapse? Who raises these men? From a sexual selection point of view these great men that build society usually come from the careful decision women make in choosing a partner that will pass on good genes/resources. Men on the other hand will marry the chick with a pretty face/good body without caring for anything but his own sexual satisfaction. And this has been going on for thousands of years.
You have no self respect for your manhood and just manhood in general. How can you build something and not be the backbone for it? That makes no damn sense. Also, the people who raises these men are men.
Another thing, you're talking total nonsense if you think that the great men that build society aren't careful about planting their seed into the right women(which are women who would understand their role). How would you keep a stable society/nation/community if you don't have a set succession in place and to have a set succession in place you don't place your seed willy nilly. Anyways, get some self respect. Until you do don't quote me.