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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Might as well write that shyt off on your taxes breh, you dead on that bread
Does your girl borrow money from you?
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Might as well write that shyt off on your taxes breh, you dead on that bread
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She is breh, She is.
I mean the overall message is 'don't marry bytches'
, but I'm not the type to argue with females over shyt I honestly feel is trivial and if we did, I'd be on some 
shyt that won't do the relationship no good. Would it be bad to have a separate account that she knew about for shyt like this. Been a while since I've been in a longterm relationship and I'm mad worried I'd fall into a situation like that and lose my shyt on a chick 'cause she got mad 'cause I went and bought the entire Calvin and Hobbes boxset at Borders with my own quid. 
I have a relationship of mutual respect. She respects me well enough to know not to expect to have full reign at my finances. She sees every penny I spend on her as an added blessing.Your girl knows not to ask? What a relationship you got
There are no entitlements to my money until I put a ring on it.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I respect that, but when I knew my girl was the one my money was hers before I gave her the ring
mcdivit85
Superstar
I have no problem loaning money to someone who I feel would do the same for me. I don't understand the idea of counting money with people you're down with....friends, family, relationships. If the person isn't trustworthy or reliable, why are they in your circle?
With that said, I've never needed to lend any chick money. But I would if they needed it and they were my chick. Or I would just pay for whatever they need. Why? Because, if she's my chick, then I know she would do the same. If you put the work in upfront, then you'll know what kind of person you have on your hands. I do said work.
Peace
With that said, I've never needed to lend any chick money. But I would if they needed it and they were my chick. Or I would just pay for whatever they need. Why? Because, if she's my chick, then I know she would do the same. If you put the work in upfront, then you'll know what kind of person you have on your hands. I do said work.
Peace
I feel my woman is the one also, but I tend to find that women respect you more when you don't give them that much power. Lay down rules and barriers and dare them to cross it.
My girl and I 50/50 on everything, your view on power and control over her is really something I fundamentally don't fukk with my fiancé and future mother of my kids
YaThreadFloppedB!
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said every nikka who's been cheated on before....
My best friends wife worked at footaction for 3 years and footlocker for 2 years, she would get hit on EVERY DAY, some nikkas would grab her ass and be disrespectful (paper bag face with a phat ass). We was at the mall one day to get some lunch and right before leaving he decided we should go say hi to his wifey so we roll up on the footlocker and a co-worker is bear hugging his wife from the back and lifting her up in the air in a playful manner, they both giggling and laughing, they was just playing but you could tell by how he was holding my boys wife that he was very comfortable with doing it..we turn the corner to see that and my boy looking like..he just standing there looking until his wife sees him and she straightens up real quick and does her lil shame walk over to us on some "heybaby
"..the nikka that was hugging her back behind the counter like
thinking he finna have to square up...lol i go sit on the bench and drink my soda like
we left and he aint say a word the rest of the day because he knew her co-worker done felt on that booty or worse, been in them guts..they been divorced for 3 years now and he's re-married..
just sayin
Okay you have a different type of relationship so I understand your perspective. I pay for mostly everything so there are different dynamics on display. My gf doesn't see me as her equal, so I have to dominate in order to maintain her respect.
You need a new girl
If she lives with her parents, what other bills does she have? Are they making her pay rent or something?
She pays for her phone and food. She doesn't get many hours at her job.
By not see me as her equal, I mean she sees me as superior. Most bw expect their men to dominate.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Does she make her own food or eat out a lot? If it's the latter there are some simple meals that she can make and it will last her the whole week. Just a suggestion. I rarely eat out because it takes money out my wallet really fast.