My last serious relationship my man & I shared everything down the middle.
He made his money, I made mine and we shared all basic essential expenses like rent, food, condoms, beer/alcohol, weed/shrooms/hash, etc.
He doesn't smoke cigarettes so I bought my own but would always give him clips for hash joints and spliffs.
The only time I had an issue sharing money with him was when he wasn't working (he worked contracts and had a dead spell for work) and when we went to NYC for my birthday.
He didn't get his pay before we left and I'd already planned everything out...we rented a sick 1 bedroom loft right near Union Square from a friend who does stand-up comedy and my original plan fell through (was supposed to rent out my homie's pad in LES but he ended up gettin really sick and cancelled last minute). My comedian friend saw me post about it on Facebook and since he was on tour, his gf stayed with a friend and they rented us their spot for mad cheap $350/week.
That place was mad pimpin too
Anyways I ended up payin for everything food, rent, transportation, weed, alcohol, etc. & it took him forever to hit me back and that put stress on our relationship.
And the stupid mothafukka didn't even like NYC. He hated it and complained the whole time, it was awful.
I fukkin LOVE NYC with all my heart and have always dreamed of moving there, and I have amazing magical adventures every time I go, so after our NYC trip I knew our relationship wouldn't work out.
I loved him though and stuck with him for almost a year after that even though I knew it would never work.
I'm too loyal.
She don't give you blow jobs when she's on her period?
Or do you guys have period sex?