Does your girl borrow money from you?

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all that split account bullshyt is for people who don't trust each other anyway, you begging for infidelity
couldn't you just as easily be cheated on with a joint account. Isn't it worse if the dude she's fukking is spending your bread. Aren't you a cuckold then?
 

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is she someone you can see a future with - long term?

my opinion - if she is your girl, and someone you are looking to have longevity with (and vice versa), no problems with helping her out on occasion - it cannot grow into a habit.

Think the bigger issue is with her and the steps she needs to take to be a little more financially responsible. I'm assuming she doesnt live with her parents/guardian (ie. the food comment). Does she live on her own/with a roommate?
Idk about the long term thing. It's been. 4 months.

She actually lives with her pops and step mom but they're food is not her food.
 

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My last serious relationship my man & I shared everything down the middle.

He made his money, I made mine and we shared all basic essential expenses like rent, food, condoms, beer/alcohol, weed/shrooms/hash, etc.

He doesn't smoke cigarettes so I bought my own but would always give him clips for hash joints and spliffs.

The only time I had an issue sharing money with him was when he wasn't working (he worked contracts and had a dead spell for work) and when we went to NYC for my birthday.

He didn't get his pay before we left and I'd already planned everything out...we rented a sick 1 bedroom loft right near Union Square from a friend who does stand-up comedy and my original plan fell through (was supposed to rent out my homie's pad in LES but he ended up gettin really sick and cancelled last minute). My comedian friend saw me post about it on Facebook and since he was on tour, his gf stayed with a friend and they rented us their spot for mad cheap $350/week.

That place was mad pimpin too :noah:

Anyways I ended up payin for everything food, rent, transportation, weed, alcohol, etc. & it took him forever to hit me back and that put stress on our relationship.

And the stupid mothafukka didn't even like NYC. He hated it and complained the whole time, it was awful.

I fukkin LOVE NYC with all my heart and have always dreamed of moving there, and I have amazing magical adventures every time I go, so after our NYC trip I knew our relationship wouldn't work out.

I loved him though and stuck with him for almost a year after that even though I knew it would never work.

I'm too loyal. :snoop:


We take turns cooking. She cums more than I do during sex. What are you talking about?
:mjlol: :russ:

She don't give you blow jobs when she's on her period? :usure:

Or do you guys have period sex? :scust:
 

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My last serious relationship my man & I shared everything down the middle.

He made his money, I made mine and we shared all basic essential expenses like rent, food, condoms, beer/alcohol, weed/shrooms/hash, etc.

He doesn't smoke cigarettes so I bought my own but would always give him clips for hash joints and spliffs.

The only time I had an issue sharing money with him was when he wasn't working (he worked contracts and had a dead spell for work) and when we went to NYC for my birthday.

He didn't get his pay before we left and id already planned everything out...we rented a sick 1 bedroom loft right near Union Square from a friend who does stand-up comedy and my original plan fell through (was supposed to rent out my homie's pad in LES but he ended up gettin really sick and cancelled last minute). My comedian friend saw me post about it on Facebook and since he was on your his gf stayed with a friend and they rented us their spot for mad cheap $350/week.

That place was mad pimpin too :noah:

Anyways I ended up payin for everything food, rent, transportation, weed, alcohol, etc. & it took him forever to hit me back and that put stress on our relationship.

And the stupid mothafukka didn't even like NYC he hated it and complained the whole time, it was awful.

I fukkin live NYC with all my heart and have always dreamed of moving there, and I have amazing magical adventures every time I go so after our NYC trip I knew our relationship wouldn't work out.

I loved him though and stuck with him for almost a year after that even though I knew it would never work.

I'm too loyal. :snoop:



:mjlol: :russ:

She don't give you blow jobs when she's on her period? :usure:

Or do you guys have period sex? :scust:
Nah no blow jobs cause that shyt just makes me wanna fukk.
 

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Idk about the long term thing. It's been. 4 months.

She actually lives with her pops and step mom but they're food is not her food.
:dwillhuh::ehh::what::jbhmm:

how old is your girl...??

well, since its early in the relationship, I'd keep an eye out on the frequency of the "borrowing" and the amounts - borrow means she's eventually have to give back
 

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all that split account bullshyt is for people who don't trust each other anyway, you begging for infidelity

I hear you...but what if you the type of cat that buys shyt your broad might not necessarily fukk with (Videogames, Weed, Concert tickets, Classic Literature) and you using the joint account and she cops an attitude sayin' you could be spending it on better shyt or more meaningful shyt for the household?

'cause even though I'd have no problem sharing a joint account, I don't want to hear shyt after the bills/kids/house was taken care of for the month and I wanted to buy shyt I could AFFORD with the money I MAKE.
 

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I hope these women that you simps are throwing money at got their own source of income too...



cause you know just what we call that :francis:



"My money is her money" - Words of a simp, Music to a trifling bytch's ears. I hope you nikkas got some good ones. Cause if not, that aint ya woman. Thats ya pimp :mjlol:
 

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I hear you...but what if you the type of cat that buys shyt your broad might not necessarily fukk with (Videogames, Weed, Concert tickets, Classic Literature) and you using the joint account and she cops an attitude sayin' you could be spending it on better shyt or more meaningful shyt for the household?

'cause even though I'd have no problem sharing a joint account, I don't want to hear shyt after the bills/kids/house was taken care of for the month and I wanted to buy shyt I could AFFORD with the money I MAKE.

Breh, I buy shyt all the time my girl would give me the :dahell: look, but it's never an issue because if she want something I never say a word and she just gets it herself
 

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My last serious relationship my man & I shared everything down the middle.

He made his money, I made mine and we shared all basic essential expenses like rent, food, condoms, beer/alcohol, weed/shrooms/hash, etc.

He doesn't smoke cigarettes so I bought my own but would always give him clips for hash joints and spliffs.

The only time I had an issue sharing money with him was when he wasn't working (he worked contracts and had a dead spell for work) and when we went to NYC for my birthday.

He didn't get his pay before we left and I'd already planned everything out...we rented a sick 1 bedroom loft right near Union Square from a friend who does stand-up comedy and my original plan fell through (was supposed to rent out my homie's pad in LES but he ended up gettin really sick and cancelled last minute). My comedian friend saw me post about it on Facebook and since he was on tour, his gf stayed with a friend and they rented us their spot for mad cheap $350/week.

That place was mad pimpin too :noah:

Anyways I ended up payin for everything food, rent, transportation, weed, alcohol, etc. & it took him forever to hit me back and that put stress on our relationship.

And the stupid mothafukka didn't even like NYC. He hated it and complained the whole time, it was awful.

I fukkin LOVE NYC with all my heart and have always dreamed of moving there, and I have amazing magical adventures every time I go, so after our NYC trip I knew our relationship wouldn't work out.

I loved him though and stuck with him for almost a year after that even though I knew it would never work.

I'm too loyal. :snoop:



:mjlol: :russ:

She don't give you blow jobs when she's on her period? :usure:

Or do you guys have period sex? :scust:
Exactly what does sharing condoms even? :jbhmm:
 
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