At this point, it kind of seems like black man/woman relations boil down to this (to a lesser degree, of course) but it's like...we're forever going to compete against one another instead of competing FOR one another:
Patrice O'Neal Women and Dogs Comparison - YouTube
More so, at :32 seconds...
Not a lot of positive reinforcement used to encourage one another either. It's more like a group of people going "It's whatever if you're interested but I don't need you at all and if you don't want me, you ain't shyt. You ALL ain't shyt. fukk you and the likes of you." :notsure:
It's the same from both sides. Sometimes, when you take a step back and watch, it's all REALLY fukked up. It's as if there simply can't be love without major drama so we now have fukked up views & expectations of one another.
I'll get off my soapbox though. Don't want to seem too preachy but damn, man....