Does anyone actually WANT to be married and have children?
- Thread starter Emperor Sol
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you eventually get tired of sticcking ya d1ck in random women, women who for all u know may be living that "yolo" lifestyle and letting random men bust up in them.
the mind hell you go through when u kiss a new chick or lay with her can make a n1gga go insane.
the mind hell you go through when u kiss a new chick or lay with her can make a n1gga go insane.
The major problem is people and society. We're all too self-serving to sacrifice enough for a family. Women will not give up their careers for a family. Men never have. Everyone now thinks that they deserve to be happy, no matter the decision they make in life. You deserve what you work for and make happen. So when hard times come or even neutral times when things aren't great but not bad, people are ready to bail. Everyone is looking for that constant full of joy feeling, it's not going to happen.
People in general just arent built humble enough anymore. We're taught, "don't let anyone stop you from chasing your dreams." Back in the day, parents gave up their dream to give their kids a better shot.
People in general just arent built humble enough anymore. We're taught, "don't let anyone stop you from chasing your dreams." Back in the day, parents gave up their dream to give their kids a better shot.
What's a man more likely to get tired of old p*ssy for the rest of his life or a constant stream of new p*ssy?
Nah just stay single and do as I please.
daboywonder2002
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i agree. i dont understand married people without kids. it would be fun in the beginning. just you and your mate with no interruptions. but eventually you would get tired of each other. kids provide a balance in your relationship and can keep you closer together.
Drew Wonder
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I wanna get married and raise a family eventually but this is gospel right hereI wouldnt mind
daboywonder2002
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for the people who don't want kids. dont you want to leave a memory of yourself when you die?? leave behind your name and legacy. once you leave, thats it.
Really that's fantasy land most people's "legacy" doesn't extend past immediate family.
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People looking at marriage as "fukking the same p*ssy" probably shouldn't get married. Im married with 2 kids and at this point wouldn't change shyt for the world. Even if something bad happens and me and wifey gets divorced, I at least have two beautiful seeds that will always be mine.
For those that feel marriage is outdated and "for the birds" when your parents die and your all alone sick and lonely, you'll wish you had someone to be with you. Its easy to feel invincible and say fukk everyone when your young, healthy, and single. Its when you get old or infirm is when you need someone by your side.
For those that feel marriage is outdated and "for the birds" when your parents die and your all alone sick and lonely, you'll wish you had someone to be with you. Its easy to feel invincible and say fukk everyone when your young, healthy, and single. Its when you get old or infirm is when you need someone by your side.
daboywonder2002
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no what i mean is when you die, at least ill be able to see an image of you, a part of you through your kids. your leaving something behind on this earth.
But who does that benefit? That's a perception on the part of the parent but there is no way to ensure that anyone is even interested in that.