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Men have always looked at a woman’s resources. Look at the middle class and upwardly mobile black men you grew up with in the 70s, 80s, and 90s.You don’t see a lot of doctors, engineers, educators married to around the way girls. They married women who also had degrees and their own thing going because they need that support. Barack Obama didn’t marry a community worker like himself, he married an educated woman who could pay the bills while he pursued his political dreams. I know a pharmacist headed to the c-suite And he’s in his early 40s. His current wife is a housewife, but the one who got him through school and the beginning of his career was a marketing executive with her own house and well-connected parents.
Women often have to claw and scratch to acquire their own outside of marriage. Men marry up more than women, they need a woman who can help pay the bills and has a supportive family who can step in.
Women often have to claw and scratch to acquire their own outside of marriage. Men marry up more than women, they need a woman who can help pay the bills and has a supportive family who can step in.
