Do you think men will start looking at women for their resources

[mamba]

I mean ain't that what you're supposed to do? Y'all out here marrying broads with 600 credit scores and $40,000 student loans

I had a girl like that. She was not paying on those loans at all. Maybe the bare minimum.

She said it was only $40k worth of loans. But, I suspect the number was actually higher than that.

 

[mamba]

When my brother in law married my sister she was working a full time great job . 3 kids later she is a stay at home .

That’s how it usually is. They pump out 2-3 kids and they are dropping out the workforce.

That’s why a woman’s current salary means nothing to me. She will typically not be bringing that in 10 years from now if she wants to have kids.

I’m more concerned about her debt load. Because that will still be there after she drops out the workforce.

 

[Will Ross]

yeah true. point is, it was less about tangibles back then than it is now. it was much more acceptable for a potential wife to have no job skills or money back then

The thing is as men we really don’t have options until we have success. So a woman’s resource don’t mean shyt because we had the lifestyle before she came

 

[SheWantTheD]

Men are already doing that unless they wanna be the sole provider and see women solely as stay at home moms or trophy wives.

 

[TEH]

I already do this to avoid chicken heads and gold diggers, but they can keep what they have, I’m doing ok myself.

 

[Offthegrid]

Been doin it for past 3 yrs I don't really wanna get involved with industry women but I might have to finesse a few plays to get my ppl in that door just look at how these new celebrity type dudes are moving now.jayz,Travis,Kanye,migos etc n u can still get sum thot p*ssy on the side just don't get em pregnant n fuk up the bag

 

[Sterling Archer]

fukk bumass bytches and think you starting a trend in 2020 not to.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I think results may vary depending on where u are in life. One colleague of mine who lost nearly everything in a previous divorce will tell you that looks are important but don’t compensate for a woman being a bum.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

If men start looking to women to be providers it's gonna start looking like Japan around here.

Why you think that?

 

[BeBorn]

You clowns azz nikkas sicken me....how do dusty junkies survive?....since the beginning of time this has been a case....nikkas talking that i got my own sh1tfoh........die nikka die..a dime aint a dime if she aint got a penny....fat chicks stay winning because they take care of a no good nikka....and have career....i can name 10 nikkas rn living off a fat b1tch and probably a 100 if i include mamas...

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I sure as fukk do.

My girl is (hopefully) going to out-earn me this year.

 

[Strapped]

Makes me think real housewives of orange county. Love & hiphop & all the other dramatic bs on tv

 

[Wiles]

There are already men that do that. You ever see a normal looking guy/good looking guy with a busted female?? He’s with her for the monies.

Hugh Jackman?

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Instead of for their looks in the near future? You know start looking at them the way they do us?

Does she have a good job
Is she in debt?
What kind of car does she drive?
What sort of connections does she have?
How much does she make?
Can she pay the bills?

I mean in larger quantities? Not small isolated groups of men.

@Wild self @SheWantTheD

Apparently people still consider men to want men to be providers and higher earners.

Men seen as financial providers in U.S., even as women’s contributions grow

Better-Educated Women Still Prefer Higher-Earning Husbands

dude you are mad LATE....

Men that i know including myself started that "wave" back when the global reccession really hit around late 2008-2009

by that time i made SHELTER and FINANCIAL SECURITY a priority over LOOKS and SEX.....

and found me a nice insecure section 8 chick to lay up with for a couple of years...which benifited me greatly

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/ask-a-former-hobosexual-anything-ama.695074/

two of my friends did as well....every other day my partner was disgusted with his "partner" ...some fat white chick he linked up with at a bar where she worked at

whom really liked him ....he decided to move in with her..after he lost his place and caught a lil charge

she did and still does everything for him...

always made more bank them him ......while he mostly worked odd jobs cause wanted to just smoke all the tim

they been together for 10 years now and just got married this spring....after she hooked him up with a great managing gig at a retail store which she oversees along with 5 other stores as a district manager......

and nah it ain't love at all..like i always said it's security he married for

that mofo cheats on her on a daily basis ...done fukked every female assistant manager and customer service rep who was willing to give him a time of day....

but hey.....as he told me the other day.....he would never leave her..cause it's a great WORKING RELATIONSHIP

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Some of those questions are legit to ask.