Usually female armor sets look better. In wow back in the day almost every female armor set looks 2 times better than the males.
However that was the game that made me stop picking female characters in games if there is a choice between male and female. ( Well mass effect also)
Eventually people would just treat you like a female if you had a female avatar in wow, which is understandable. But it's crazy the difference, it was a unintentional social experiment. Women got treat way kinda than male characters, as someone that had both at all levels it was a clear difference, dudes and women would help female characters and talk to them far more than male characters.
I started shifting away from making female characters in games with online options or multiplayer after that, and never really have looked back, unless the main male character is atrocious or the stats different I pick male characters 90 percent of the time now.