Do you feel like black men respect black women enough?

[Oceanicpuppy]

You're full of shyt, you don't know what you're yalking about.

So why do so many black women disrespect black men? When do you people ever psychoanalyze black women?

Do you take this attitude when it comes to black women and claims that too many are masculine, loud, obnoxious, angry, and overbearing? No, you don't. You people have been brainwashed to be so full of shyt that you can't help it.

No one is saying all black men but look at the guys on coli. A lot of disrespectful people on this forum.

 

[cam>]

So why do so many black women disrespect black men? When do you people ever psychoanalyze black women?

It isn't psycho analysis. I don't know how to do that. But the behaviour patterns are pretty explicit.

Black men are responsible for one of the most influential cultural movements of modern times, Hip Hop.

And with that power, chose to use it to degrade and humiliate the women of their own race. They didn't put the same focus on using it to challenge our white male lead power structure, they put the focus on pushing Black women down. (And advocating criminality, but that's another story.)


I'm not of the mind that Black men hate Black women, they don't, they can't, they rely on us too much.

But Black men, like all men, need power. Our society doesn't give them any in ways that are seen as substantive/valuable/legitimate, so they take power by objectifying/disrespecting/abusing Black women. The only group they can do it to.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You're lying. Nobody is saying that the problem doesn't exist we're saying that it's a two way street and not a one sided problem. Why should black men accept this issue being framed as being one sided when black men have complained about the lack of respect that black women give for decades? How can you expect for black men to take your criticisms seriously while not even acknowledging theirs?

Ummm someone did actually say it doesn't exist. The rest was addressed in the post you quoted and how you all take the opposite stance when it comes to OOW children; put all the blame on women. Now all of a sudden you wanna share responsibly. Ya'll are hypocrites. Get ya shyt together.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

No, but black women don't even command respect anymore. They cool with being hoes & bytches. Being drugged out thots.

 

[GoPro]

Well perhaps, just perhaps, if they weren't out there shaking their asses to such lyrics and reciting them better than they could the Our Father, werent glorying the Snoops, JayZs, 2Pacs, n Biggies, werent buying their records and attending their concerts in significant numbers..., maybe the respect demand would be unquestioned.

As of now, respect is earned on an individual basis.

 

[Gravity]

No one is saying all black men but look at the guys on coli. A lot of disrespectful people on this forum.

I'll ask again, what about disrespect from black women towards black men? When are you all ever going to address that?

I'm not trolling though, I asked you how many white women you've been with and you can't even give a straight answer.

I answered your question. You want to ask me a slick question and I'm going to answer it in a slick way. The l

It isn't psycho analysis. I don't know how to do that.

That's exactly what you're trying to do tho and your analysis is bullshyt. You don't know what you're talking about. Not all hiphop degrades women. The fact that you act as if it does shows your bias. There's music that degrades women and there's music that praises women. While black men created hiphop they don't control it. Hiphop is controlled by white men in corporate America and they're the ones who decide what gets promotion and what doesn't. Now if you really want to be honest about the popularization of the kind of hiphop that degraded women then you have to acknowledge the role that black women have played in that. These hiphop songs that have became hits over the decades just because black men like them. Black women have always supported the music that people like complain degrades women.

This is what I mean, y'all use real issues to push your own bullshyt agendas. If you want to talk about disrespect in the community then let's talk about both sides of the issue because framing I one way is the quickest way to get dismissed and ignored. Disrespect in the community is not a one way street regardless of how you try to spin it.

Ummm someone did actually say it doesn't exist. The rest was addressed in the post you quoted and how you all take the opposite stance when it comes to OOW children; put all the blame on women. Now all of a sudden you wanna share responsibly. Ya'll are hypocrites. Get ya shyt together.

That's nothing but a deflection. You sound like a little ass kid playing tit for tat. Are you grown or what? This isn't even the same thing as out o wedlock children. Only one sex has children and its "your body your choice". How the fukk does a man share equal responsibility over what happens to a woman's body? We're taking about disrespect in the community,
Stop deflecting. Disrespect goes both ways and if you all as black women aren't willing to own up to that then you don't deserve respect yourself. It's that simple.

 

[The_Truth]

Do you feel like black men respect black women enough?

In comparison to whom?

 

[mcdivit85]

man can yall issue avoidin ass nikkas ever discuss any solutions w/o bringin up white ppl?

white supremacy got us where we are, we all understand that. but now its about movin on from this bad place. aint nobody gon get us out of it but us.

trust me man holdin each other accountable is much more productive than just pointin fingers at white supremacy constantly. at this point doing it is almost like cushion absolving nikkas of any accountability.

Bro, you sound like an idiot....no offense. Discussing the black situation outside the context of white supremacy is like discussing the existence of a prisoner outside the context of prison. His whole existence is shaped by that experience from how he dresses to how he eats to how he relates to his family outside of prison. Now, how much sense would that make? Well, reread what you typed and ask yourself how much sense your statement makes.

N#ggas who think like you are the "avoidin ass nikkas" because you'd rather stick your head in the ground when it comes to white supremacy and how it has and does affect every part of our existence in perpetuity. Every part of how we relate to the world and to each other.

Yes, black people need to take control of what we can. No argument here. But understanding white supremacy will help blacks understand that process much better as there are obstacles at every turn.

Peace

 

[Ness]

Dbl

 

[Ness]

Bro, you sound like an idiot....no offense. Discussing the black situation outside the context of white supremacy is like discussing the existence of a prisoner outside the context of prison. His whole existence is shaped by that experience from how he dresses to how he eats to how he relates to his family outside of prison. Now, how much sense would that make? Well, reread what you typed and ask yourself how much sense your statement makes.

N#ggas who think like you are the "avoidin ass nikkas" because you'd rather stick your head in the ground when it comes to white supremacy and how it has and does affect every part of our existence in perpetuity. Every part of how we relate to the world and to each other.

Yes, black people need to take control of what we can. No argument here. But understanding white supremacy will help blacks understand that process much better as there are obstacles at every turn.

Peace

My point is not simply about discussing white supremacy.

Ofc understanding the nature of the system/enemy and wut caused our predicament is primordial.

My issue is wit u nikkas that make it the basis of every talk. The fact that u even compared us to prisoners lets me know the defeatist helpless mentality we have.

A prisoner cannot do anything to remedy his situation other than escaping. Black ppl on the other hand do have power and leverage that were not tapping into. Why? 1. We dont have the discipline 2. Weve been pacified 3. Most black ppl are interested in being accepted by white ppl rather than building the community up to be self sufficient

Those r all facts my nikka. In 2016 I aint even worried about white ppl no more, when I discuss solutions its strictly about me n my ppl and wut we can do. fukk being hung up on white supremacy like we cant control our own destiny.

 

[Absalom's Thought]

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[Playa With Tha Passport]

It comes from Black men having no real power. Men like to feel in control. The Black man has been broken down and defeated so much that the only person he turns to let off some anger is the only person who is beneath even him...the Black woman.

Truthfully..we're used to it. My grandma didn't put my grand daddy out for having a baby with her childhood friend when they were 23 because (and I quote) "The world was hard enough for a Black man at that time..I didn't want to make it worse".

That didn't stop him from leaving her with 3 kids a couple years later when he got a settlement from the city of San Francisco and left with a White woman.



Anyways, if a man feels the need to disrespect women for no reason at all other than them being women.. I just assume he's wild mango and trynna hide it or don't get no p*ssy..I'm usually right.

Don't bother me or my friends none

U just admitted bw are beneath the bm u said are "broken"

What does that say about the state of bw

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Give me 3 valid reasons

Why bw deserve respect

 

[InDePickWest]

U just admitted bw are beneath the bm u said are "broken"

What does that say about the state of bw

That Black men have been broken down by racism but Black women have been broken down by both racism and sexism. We got dealt a stronger hand and still exceed past yall. It's still love tho.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

That Black men have been broken down by racism but Black women have been broken down by both racism and sexism. We got dealt a stronger hand and still exceed past yall. It's still love tho.

Went from being beneath

To exceeding in 2 post

Gotcha

Bw average net worth is 5 dollars
But ur exceeding bm tho

Ya cant even buy urself a 5 dollar box from popeyes cause is plus tax lol

Ya really are delusional

And racism never effected bw

Ur used as a tool against bm


There's a reason half of ya are allowed to make kids , get government(whites) assistance, and get child support and sit on ur overweight asses all day with no job


Thats not racism, that's privilege

Bm dont have that luxury