Do you believe black men don't holler at her?

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She's just an option to the men she finds attractive.

 

[Ty Daniels]

9 Times out of 10, this Broad is just lying for online attention.

I've known a couple broads like this that claim "Black Men Don't Want Me",
then you actually look at their dating patterns, and all they ever date are White dudes.

Its usually projection, and bs.

The chick isn't ugly.

I see Black, average, even overweight, and some even "ugly" Woman, of all shades,
in relationships with Black Men.

I even see these same "Average" broads(of all skin shades),
with a gang of dudes simpin over them on social media.

I keep seeing people say "She's not getting the Black Men She wants"

How do we know she even really likes Black Men at all? And ain't just Bullshytin?

This is the same as the "Woe as Me", "Black Women Don't Want Me"
"So I'll only date White woman" group.

Both projecting.

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I have no issues if you "Date Out", date who you want, we are all adults".

My issue is the fake-ass, Bullshyt excuses for doing so.

And the "Low Racial Self-Esteem", act of putting Non-Black People(Especially White), on a pedestal.

Dating Non-Black People ain't no "Prize".

Muthafukkas act like the won the "Lottery", cause someone Non-Black, "Looked Their Way".

This goes for both genders.

Step your, Racial Self-Esteem Up!

 

[Still Benefited]

Or.....maybe the kind of men she wants are already taken.

The ones that are single may not want to settle down with anyone. If she gives off serious vibes, brehs might ignore her...knowing she isn't the type to be a jump-off.

Sometimes, women are better off avoiding nikkas that just want to fukk around.

This also goes to the primary difference between men and women in dating. If a man is failing, everyone tells him to "level up" and look internally for self-improvement.

Women get told "it's THEM, not you sis...they're just (insert flaw)." So she probably thinks she has no reason to improve because modern culture tells women they don't need to be better. Sistas have the highest self-esteem among all women so this gets compounded.

And yet......every single dark skinned sista I know is married, engaged or in a serious LTR. So, Black women of a darker hue can find quality men very easily. If this chick isn't, that's a her problem. My guess is she wants men on her level or higher in terms of looks. Any breh that high up the food chain is going to have options. Lots of options. What makes her think she's the best option for Mr. Perfect Breh? That in and of itself speaks to unbridled arrogance on her part.

Maybe she needs to level up.

So your saying its just a coincidence that many dark skinned women talk about this being an issue,while light skinned women dont? Your saying its all in their head like how white supremacist say racism and percieved slights are in our head.


And yes,just like the white supremacist tells us its in our head, Maybe black men could pretend the colorism are in these sistas imagination. Maybe even say the narratives are causing them to see whats not there. If and only if,we didnt have history and experience to prove colorism has been real since the beginning of time. Yet yall are pushing this twisted "Colorism is dead" narrative.


Why does it appear that the higher up the food chain goes,and the more options black men have,the more those black men begin to date out?


Meanwhile on this very site and in this very thread,you have black men insinuating black women are just settling for us because they dont have options. Meanwhile a littany of evidence is saying this is actually the case for black men. So how can you ignore a sista who FEELS less desired,and possibly like shes being settled for by her own race of men?


Message to the to the little black girls in the peanut gallery. I can assure you,we arent all colorism deniers. Ive seen it,heard it,and checked it in real life in real time.


Your struggle is real,but we all have a cross to bear. Dont waste a second of energy thinking about or entertaining colorist. Forgive them,theve been g.m.o'd. Divesting and modifying yourself definitely isnt some sort of payback,its joining them in damnation

 

[tay1]

Ya'll gotta stop putting the spotlight on birdbrain shyt. Her opinion or statement doesn't matter.

 

[Brolic]

She’s either looking for black men in the top 1% or average cacs.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes there is a place called Caribbean Scene in Docklands
West African place called Enish in Oxford Circus

Nah I just want these. Is there a black briton equivalent to soul food? Or nah?

 

[BangBike]

https://twitter.com/TeflonQi/status/1868676484917055619

 

[ThrobbingHood]

 

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[CreepyMcCreeperson]

There’s short men in there saying they prefer taller women, yet the women can’t prefer taller men.