Do you believe black men don't holler at her?

[Biscayne]

I forgot thecoli doesnt believe aka "want to admit" that colorism exist


Of course black men arent hollering at her. Any man who can pull her knows he can pull a so called "exotical". Even if shes slightly less attractive and maybe even a little weird looking exotical,shes still exotical#MyFirstExotical

"Only black men who can pull her" so she does get approached by black men, just not the ones she wants?

 

[Biscayne]

So how is that any different than when black men say black women didnt want them, because they were nerds into animae and weird whiteboy shyt.


They are also talking about the black women they want not wanting them. I see alot of men saying that,get plenty of support and coddling on here. But when she is saying it,its a problem.

Difference is this is far more egregious. Because certain demos of black women not wanting nerdy black men who sound like white boys makes perfect sense. But there is no demographic of black men who doesnt like beauty. So that video someone posted, of all those men with biracial and lightskinned babies speaks volumes. If shes having trouble among any demo,colorism is alive and well

"It makes sense why nerdy, white boy sounding black men can't get black women"

 

[Still Benefited]

"Only black men who can pull her" so she does get approached by black men, just not the ones she wants?

Why do the black men she wants not want her? Is there a demographic of black men who dont like beauty that I dont know about.


The answer here is colorism. She wants an attractive man who is desireable to many women,equally yoked some say. Why do black men who are desired by many types of women ,seem to have a certain type.


There should be no demographic of black men not getting at her. Its a troubling sign that just speaks to the prophecy of the Octaroonian people

 

[Still Benefited]

"It makes sense why nerdy, white boy sounding black men can't get black women"

I clearly said certain demographics. Black women not wanting assimilated,out of touch culturally,"new blacks" makes sense to me. Not saying every black nerd fits that description. But there is definitely a pattern. Does it make sense nerdy black women wouldnt want those type of black men? No.

But nerdy black girls are scarce in certain environments. And I know for a fact the ones i grew up around,I dont recall the more nerdy nikkas exactly lusting over them.

There is no demographic of black men who dont love beauty. What they see as beautiful is the issue#ColorismIsReal

 

[Neuromancer]

So should she date the ones she doesn’t want, just to have someone?

Point out where I said that?

I think she should stop using other people's happiness to make her self a victim. Might help her attract the guys she wants.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

And it’s deeply tragic as a Black man to have to question whether women of your own race find you attractive, too.

Yeah that shyt goes both ways as well. And it’s getting very tiring.

 

[Action Mike]

This is so boring now and very insecure.

Coming online complaining people don't won't you. And this isn't loser shyt?

 

[Wiseborn]

So should she date the ones she doesn’t want, just to have someone?

Thats a her decision but if she focuses on unattainable ( to her ) guys shes gonna get pumped and dumped.

This is not the ghost of Kevin Samuels scare tactic that brehs think it is. A chick with hoe bones just likes to get fukked.

So non celebrities trying to link with Chris Brown know what theyre doing.


Another chick who moved from London to the states found that country nikkas liked her Eliza Doolittle sounding ass.

Shorty moved to LA so I guess the priority is getting ran though by nikkas playing scared thug number 3 on Law & Order

 

[Biscayne]

Why do the black men she wants not want her? Is there a demographic of black men who dont like beauty that I dont know about.


The answer here is colorism. She wants an attractive man who is desireable to many women,equally yoked some say. Why do black men who are desired by many types of women ,seem to have a certain type.


There should be no demographic of black men not getting at her. Its a troubling sign that just speaks to the prophecy of the Octaroonian people

But if she's not desirable to all types of men(per her and your theory) then how is she equally yoked with the black men she desires, if according to you, those black men are desired by MANY?

 

[Still Benefited]

But if she's not desirable to all types of men(per her and your theory) then how is she equally yoked with the black men she desires, if according to you, those black men are desired by MANY?

Fair point,dark skinned women can never be equally yoked due to colorism. Just like black people can never truly be equal in white supremacy. Im sure a few outliers will be pointed out "Bu bu but what about Bria Myles". This is the same thing the European does to dismiss racism "Bu bu but what about Obama!". This denial of colorism despite history is truly alarming. Not saying you in particular since you havent specefically said that,but its been said and definitely hinted

 

[LordDeathwatch]

But if she's not desirable to all types of men(per her and your theory) then how is she equally yoked with the black men she desires, if according to you, those black men are desired by MANY?

My brother, you're wasting your time. That's an admitted rapist who also cosplays as a male feminist. You couldn't make it make sense if you tried.

Leave the trash to the garbage men.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Yeah I got my winter coat ready to go.

I already got me a black ting. My fiancee and I are going she's from Chicago but we live in New Jersey together now.

Any food spots you recommend? I ain't tryna fukk with no cac food

Yes there is a place called Caribbean Scene in Docklands
West African place called Enish in Oxford Circus
And most good Grill spots are in Edgware Road
Asian food defo China Town

 

[Luke Cage]

So should she date the ones she doesn’t want, just to have someone?

i don't think this is what they are saying. sounds they are simply saying that she's wrong about black men not being attracted to pretty black women.
at least in general,
The reason these athletes have white girlfriends and baby mothers. is because white girls actively pursue and outcompete other women for them while they are still playing jr varsity in high school.
around that age, older guys with cars and jobs are more appealing to black girls. So they are dating the manager at best buy in highschool or the neighborhood hustler, because he got money them highschool players don't have.
By the time he makes pro and is stacking paper enough to be on the black girls radar, he already got a whole family,
White women are the only group of women that actually follow college sports regularly, so they not just checking for brehs in the Pro's, they scooping them up in college too. not sure why people find it so hard to understand how this works. Ask a black woman if she watches college football.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Why do the black men she wants not want her? Is there a demographic of black men who dont like beauty that I dont know about.


The answer here is colorism. She wants an attractive man who is desireable to many women,equally yoked some say. Why do black men who are desired by many types of women ,seem to have a certain type.


There should be no demographic of black men not getting at her. Its a troubling sign that just speaks to the prophecy of the Octaroonian people

Or.....maybe the kind of men she wants are already taken.

The ones that are single may not want to settle down with anyone. If she gives off serious vibes, brehs might ignore her...knowing she isn't the type to be a jump-off.

Sometimes, women are better off avoiding nikkas that just want to fukk around.

This also goes to the primary difference between men and women in dating. If a man is failing, everyone tells him to "level up" and look internally for self-improvement.

Women get told "it's THEM, not you sis...they're just (insert flaw)." So she probably thinks she has no reason to improve because modern culture tells women they don't need to be better. Sistas have the highest self-esteem among all women so this gets compounded.

And yet......every single dark skinned sista I know is married, engaged or in a serious LTR. So, Black women of a darker hue can find quality men very easily. If this chick isn't, that's a her problem. My guess is she wants men on her level or higher in terms of looks. Any breh that high up the food chain is going to have options. Lots of options. What makes her think she's the best option for Mr. Perfect Breh? That in and of itself speaks to unbridled arrogance on her part.

Maybe she needs to level up.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

i don't think this is what they are saying. sounds they are simply saying that she's wrong about black men not being attracted to pretty black women.
at least in general,
The reason these athletes have white girlfriends and baby mothers. is because white girls actively pursue and outcompete other women for them while they are still playing jr varsity in high school.
around that age, older guys with cars and jobs are more appealing to black girls. So they are dating the manager at best buy in highschool or the neighborhood hustler, because he got money them highschool players don't have.
By the time he makes pro and is stacking paper enough to be on the black girls radar, he already got a whole family,
White women are the only group of women that actually follow college sports regularly, so they not just checking for brehs in the Pro's, they scooping them up in college too. not sure why people find it so hard to understand how this works. Ask a black woman if she watches college football.

There’s only so many athletes and CEOs available. I don’t think she’s that delusional, as most women aren’t that delusional.

I think she’s not completely honest about black men not approaching her, but maybe she only gets approached by black men 3 times a year. Out of those 3, who’s to say she would be interested in any of them? Women don’t count the men they don’t want as prospects. I think it’s not entirely true that most women have a lot of men to choose from, because they aren’t attracted to most of the men interested in them, and very few men approach them period. If you went to a public space, and observed people, you’re not going to see men constantly trying to talk to women.