Do you believe a women's love for a man is conditional?

Do you believe a women's love for a man is conditional?

  • Yes

    Votes: 90 93.8%
  • No

    Votes: 6 6.3%

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There are certain times that a man is able to shed tears in front of his family (death, rape, trauma) but I think it’s best to do it in private or around someone else like family, mom, sister, friend. Kinda have to be the rock for the family.

yes love is conditional in most cases... not sayin if you lose your job but more so if you turn into a bytch always whining and never doing anything about problems. Running away.
 

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Everyone has a breaking point. People need to be fortunate that their loved ones haven’t tested their boundaries.


Plus Define Love. I can love someone and remain inactive in their lives.
Umm that’s not love. Loving someone is finding it impossible to hate them for long periods of time even after they continue to piss u off.

Loving someone is being empathetic to their problems and taking active steps to try to help them out.

Loving someone is keeping an eye on them just to watch their back even when they don’t appreciate it.

True love should only apply to ur blood relative. Or a significant other who has done something worthwhile/sacrificial for u. U can’t love someone from a distance. U can care. But love is caring, on a far more upgraded, sophisticated level.
 

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I'm liking the answers that you guys are giving. Most of the answers are stating that love or romantic love is conditional which in a way i can see what your guys mean.

So lets spin it then. If most believe that Romantic love is conditional is it really love begin with? Is it just another longer version of Infatuation until somebody does something that makes that infatuations fade? Just trying to pick everybody's brains shyt is mad interesting.

All love is conditional, it would take a hell of a whole lot but I would stop fukking with anybody if they were consistently bringing me down, including family
 

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According to the Biblical scriptures, woman are not called to love their men. Women are called to honor their men.
Only men are called to love their women. So when speaking about women, love shouldn't even be in the equation.

So to answer your question, if a man breaks down and cry, she is suppose to honor him, which means not making him feel less than a man.
 

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Love for either gender is conditional, if were being real.

“That's why cats up hold moms because they are the only being on the planet that gives a damn.”

Wrong, men hold up their mothers because they’re the only ones who will “love them unconditionally” despite how horrible of people they can be and then men bring those expectations into their relationships not realizing that women they date aren’t their damn mothers. A lot of Men these days want women to be their moms, not their partner.
Off topic but I think you should consider changing your screen name :lupe:
 

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I can love you like that
I can make you my world
Move Heaven and Earf if you were my girl...

dedicated to all the coli ladies :shaq:
 
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