Do you believe a women's love for a man is conditional?

[Vodun]

Kind of piggy backing off of the thread about men crying in front of women. In my opinion I think is truly fukked up for a women who claims to love her dude feel a certain type of way when he express emotion like crying. Now I'm not talking about a batty man who cries on drop of a dime but a normal dude who has a weak moment because lets face it life is fukking hard for a black man. That's why cats up hold moms because they are the only being on the planet that gives a damn.

What's your thoughts on this? Women I would like to hear your thoughts as well and your reasons for why you feel the way you do about men crying

 

[KingJay]

I think all love is conditional to some extent since no one completely knows another person and that people are capable of change over time

My love for someone I think could understandably be impacted by decisions they make, changes to their personality, etc. and therefore my love is conditional on certain actions and aspects of who they are

I'd argue a mother's love for her child is the most unconditional love there is, yet at the same time I think you'd be hard pressed to find a mother whose love for her child isn't altered slightly if she were to find out that the child isn't hers - there was some hospital mixup, and her baby is still out there. Maybe she still loves the child even, but likely not to the same extent. Her love is reasonably conditional upon that actually being her kid.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Love for either gender is conditional, if were being real.

“That's why cats up hold moms because they are the only being on the planet that gives a damn.”

Wrong, men hold up their mothers because they’re the only ones who will “love them unconditionally” despite how horrible of people they can be and then men bring those expectations into their relationships not realizing that women they date aren’t their damn mothers. A lot of Men these days want women to be their moms, not their partner.

 

[Vodun]

Love for either gender is conditional

“That's why cats up hold moms because they are the only being on the planet that gives a damn.”

Wrong, men hold up their mothers because they’re the only ones who will “love” them unconditionally despite how horrible of people they are and then men bring those expectations into their relationships not realizing that women they date aren’t their damn mothers

thats what i meant by cats hold up moms ( meaning they hold up mothers in high regards)

 

[NotaPAWG]

thats what i meant by cats hold up moms ( meaning they hold up mothers in high regards)

Idk what you’re saying but my experience is this...

the times i’ve seen the men in my life cry the most was when they could use their vulnerabilities to manipulate me

my dad called me up crying after he cheated on my mom, my ex cried to me to get me back at times i left him for cheating on me (then continued to do it)

idk how this forum has threads that are always complaining about women loving and staying ain’t shyt dudes then other times threads talking about how our love is conditional when we’ll literally love and stay with men who are horrible to us.

a women will love a man until he puts her in the dirt. men will love a women until she literally destroys his life.

such as life.

 

[The_Truth]

All romantic love is conditional.

 

[MaxPain]

Love for either gender is conditional, if were being real.

“That's why cats up hold moms because they are the only being on the planet that gives a damn.”

Wrong, men hold up their mothers because they’re the only ones who will “love them unconditionally” despite how horrible of people they can be and then men bring those expectations into their relationships not realizing that women they date aren’t their damn mothers. A lot of Men these days want women to be their moms, not their partner.

Lol that hebrew israelite breh u fukked with blazed the shyt out of you, u still sound hurt

 

[MaxPain]

All romantic love is conditional

 

[The Minister Of Culture]

All romantic love is conditional.

/thread

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Her son no

Her dad no

Her brothers no


Any one else yes these chicks def love they husband boyfriend or a friend conditionally

Its just woman nature

 

[The Notorious K.I.M.]

No. You can love people and realize they are toxic. You love them from a distance. Parents kick kids out for being "bad" but they don't stop them from loving them.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

@Coco Loco
@Booksnrain
@HarlemHottie
@Lady.Libra.
@Saltmoney

These woman prob no more

 

[Vodun]

Idk what you’re saying but my experience is this...

the times i’ve seen the men in my life cry the most was when they could use their vulnerabilities to manipulate me

my dad called me up crying after he cheated on my mom, my ex cried to me to get me back at times i left him for cheating on me (then continued to do it)

idk how this forum has threads that are always complaining about women loving and staying ain’t shyt dudes then other times threads talking about how our love is conditional when we’ll literally love and stay with men who are horrible to us.

a women will love a man until he puts her in the dirt. men will love a women until she literally destroys his life.

such as life.

Hey sorry to hear the men in your life caused you so much pain. I respect your viewpoint thanks for answering

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Yes....And I don't really see a problem with it.If you're a wise man, you'd understand it's a good thing.

Love is a business/system.Not a chemical reaction to make you feel high or entitled to "happiness".

Stay detached from feelings/emotions and focus on accomplishing your goals.That should be the main

objective.Keep an external environment that promotes peace & harmony.Wherein you both can grow

towards success in whatever it is that you pursuit.After that, set a foundation, and build strong children.

That's what it is.You're in the business of building strong children.If everybody did that, the world would

be a better place.Everybody's stuck on selfish vanity, tho.Out for their own self gratification.using people

for a rush/high, and then discarding them once the honeymoon period starts to fade.Relationships have

no meaning or purpose.End up addicted to drama.In a cycle of tension, lust, and chaos.Finding pleasure

in picking at your own scabs or the abnormal amounts of passion in make up sex.If you're a wise man,

pick a chick with a wise list of conditions.Avoid & evade the drama rats.

 

[Asicz]

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