Do women get offended if a man doesn't cum during sex?

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Depends on the woman.


But this was actually how I found out that one of my ex's had cheated and had a hidden porn addiction. We would have sex all the time. I never really enjoyed it but I was so blinded by my love for him that it didn't matter to me if I was being satisfied sexually. I was young and in love. He would always orgasm and I usually faked it. Then we would cuddle and fall asleep. Everything was always the same with him so I knew what to expect. Well...one night he initiates and we start going at it. He stops and rolls over and says he can't orgasm and that he's tired. It wasn't like him at all. He told me that I was young and inexperienced so I would not understand and told me that I didn't do anything wrong. Immediately I start to feel inadequate. The next day we go at it again and he stops and asks if he can perform acts on me that I'm not comfortable with. That's not like him so I knew something was wrong. Questioned him and he assured me everything was fine. I even snooped through his phone and found nothing that would lead me to think he was unfaithful. But I knew something wasn't right. How do you go from having an orgasm every time we have sex to not having one at all. To make a long story short one of his ex's ended up losing her cool and reached out to me and told me that he basically cheated around the same time that we started having sexual problems. The acts he wanted me to perform that night were the same acts they did when he cheated. She also revealed that he had a secret porn stash and masturbates daily. I ended up finding it. He denied cheating but after I broke things off with him he finally admitted to everything.
I know u don’t care now, I legit felt :cape: reading that. That dude is a Live p.o.s
 

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Just fake your nut I do that shyt all the time, if u strapped up its easy just hurry up and flush the condom. If you going raw just tell shorty you need a break or you got a leg cramp get dressed and leave


chics get mad and all insecure, you didnt finish why not was it me, are you not attracted to me



shyt is annoying, I be thinking of other chics and sexual exploits just to bust sometimes
:deadmanny::deadmanny::deadmanny:
 

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I had this issue with my ex where because I wasn't that physically attracted to her, (p*ssy is p*ssy :yeshrug:)
it was hard for me to cum. I started clocking how long we had sex with a timer and I could never do it before the 45-1 hour mark. Even during shower sex, (my shower has seats) it was never before the 30 minute mark. Naturally, she was always elated that she had found a guy with sexual stamina until she found out that I wasn't enjoying it like she was. It didn't really negatively impact our sex life but she did express how it was a hard blow to her self-esteem because she had never had a guy that hadn't cum for her (especially when she always told me how great the sex w/ me was). I was just curious, brehettes, do you get offended when a man doesn't cum (or worse fakes an orgasm for your convenience)?

Move this to JBO if necessary.
Yes, had the same issue. It wasn't even that I wasn't attracted to her, I just take a long time to cum. She was on medication, which affected her libido, which meant she had a hard time to climax. I never made that an issue, but she got mad and insecure the one time I told her I couldn't cum and told her "let's just stop for tonight". It only got worse when I asked "so it's ok when it happens to you, but when it happens to me it's a problem?"
 

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:duck:

As I breh with high stamina, I know that attraction isn't a factor. It plays a role in rising to the occasion.
 

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I think they understand if you're wearing a condom.

If you ain't busting even when you go raw, either her s**t trash or you got some issues downstairs.
 

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Depends on the woman.


But this was actually how I found out that one of my ex's had cheated and had a hidden porn addiction. We would have sex all the time. I never really enjoyed it but I was so blinded by my love for him that it didn't matter to me if I was being satisfied sexually. I was young and in love. He would always orgasm and I usually faked it. Then we would cuddle and fall asleep. Everything was always the same with him so I knew what to expect. Well...one night he initiates and we start going at it. He stops and rolls over and says he can't orgasm and that he's tired. It wasn't like him at all. He told me that I was young and inexperienced so I would not understand and told me that I didn't do anything wrong. Immediately I start to feel inadequate. The next day we go at it again and he stops and asks if he can perform acts on me that I'm not comfortable with. That's not like him so I knew something was wrong. Questioned him and he assured me everything was fine. I even snooped through his phone and found nothing that would lead me to think he was unfaithful. But I knew something wasn't right. How do you go from having an orgasm every time we have sex to not having one at all. To make a long story short one of his ex's ended up losing her cool and reached out to me and told me that he basically cheated around the same time that we started having sexual problems. The acts he wanted me to perform that night were the same acts they did when he cheated. She also revealed that he had a secret porn stash and masturbates daily. I ended up finding it. He denied cheating but after I broke things off with him he finally admitted to everything.

:mjlol:
 

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:dahell:

Pardon my ignorance, but how tha hell does a man "fake a nut"?

You piss inside her or sum'n?
For the past few years I've been practicing an ancient Taoist technique that deals with blocking of ejaculate/semen as it passes through your tubes and out of your body. With the right amount of exercise, yoga, meditation, practice, stamina and sheer luck you can completely bypass your testicles and instead divert the semen into your bladder to be pissed out later at your convenience. Many learned men have hypothesized that THIS was indeed the method that Drake was using the avoid getting all of these strippers pregnant...but as you can see it is not 100% successful...for when one dances with the devil he sometimes get burned...you must truly master your body before you master your nut :wow: :dame:



























































:dame: :mjlol: :dead:

Nah but forreal if you're interested give this a read

Retrograde ejaculation - Wikipedia

Also one final giant no homo super pause :dame:
 

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I don't care one way or another.If he do just so happen to cum, I do NOT want it inside me. Nut is fukking gross, and the chance of me getting knocked up scares me.
 
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So 2 years ago i smashed this latina bytch n busted a nut in like 2 mins(never happen to me before) n she stopped talkn to me...shyt was mad embarssing she wouldn't even let me redeem myself

So i was a lil paranoid at first next time i got p*ssy..i was good tho...some milf broad

Week ago I smashed mixed shorty for a hour...n she wanted me to nut so bad for a 2nd time...i ended up blowing a load in her mouth.. made her cum 3 times she was wet as fukk
 

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Men get offended too if a woman can't cum.All of my partners as of recent years, both black and white ask me why I didn't orgasm with them, and I just tell them I never had orgasm with any of my partners. The only man that could really almost take me there was a Native American who I lost my virginity too.
 
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