Being “wifed” up means nothing if the husband/bf is terrible. Relationships should be mutually beneficial. It’s like bragging about having a terrible ass job, yeah you have a title/benefits, but you hate it. How is that a win?
Do nice girls finish last?
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Most people operate like that though. They assume if you do it for me too early, you must do it with nearly everyone.My fiancée gave me an interesting perspective on this illogic. When it comes to nice guys, women feel that a nice guy is a “nice” to any woman so it isn’t special or true love. Versus an a-hole, they feel if they can get him to treat them like a simp then they equate that to “true love”. I repeat, it’s illogical but.
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A nice girl to me is a woman who goes out of her way (and usually to her own detriment) to please others and allows her nice behaviour to get used and abused... similarly to what nice guys do and just like nice guys... nice girls never finish first.
Also mentioned is that nice girls and guys tend to think that just by being nice, helpful, pleasant and other gooey goody traits is enough to warrant a relationship when in reality these traits are usually secondary/tertiary to what people desire in a spouse
Also mentioned is that nice girls and guys tend to think that just by being nice, helpful, pleasant and other gooey goody traits is enough to warrant a relationship when in reality these traits are usually secondary/tertiary to what people desire in a spouse
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/dom...s-how-to-give-backshots-the-right-way.779607/
Here you go! Lmao! Enjoy!
As some other posters mentioned in this thread, “niceness” isn’t as critical of a quality in attraction as a lot of people want it to be. Sure you don’t want someone who kicks kittens, but there’s a lot of other variables that factor in. You can be nice but irresponsible or stupid or naive or judgmental, or prudish, or incompatible.please go deeper
There has to be more than a person just being cool to build a relationship. So when nice people become bitter thinking that their niceness should seal the deal it’s unreasonable.
From a dude’s perspective, what it’s shes sweet but looks like Grimace in the face. Or what if she is kind but has zero situational awareness so she always in the middle of some shyt and got u damn near losing ur life every time you go out. What if she is sweet but likes some ultra freaky shyt u just can’t even wrap ur head around.
Niceness by itself isn’t enough of a selling point when you are considering whether u want to spend large parts of ur life with someone. Same thing goes with women.
whats a nice girl
Nope, the vast majority of women do not have morality as a criterion so a 'grimy dude' can commit all ills just as long as he does not do it to them
I do too. Although there are a lot of dudes unreceptive and uncooperative when it comes to tips on how to please chicks in the bed. They come equipped with their porno moves and get offended if a chick ain’t magically wet with no foreplay for a dude who feels she should just take dikk and be happy.
There a a shockingly high number of women out there who have never had an orgasm. And all of their partners think they’re killing it.
I blame them for being liars.
What those women should do is stop and put them out at the first sign of sexual wackness. But some of them trying to fukk their way into these dudes hearts, so they take them boring strokes hoping that him nutting=relationship. Goofiest shyt ever.
Yeah I’ve seen this happen too. People mistake being nice for being stupid. You can be kind without being a doormat.
“No” is the most important word in a woman’s vocabulary.
“Come on baby just the tip”
NOPE.“lemme hit it raw!”
NOPE”Dats why u gon be alone!”
STILL NOPE“You don’t love me?”
NOPE!“You bitter!”
Still NOPE!Nice girls only finish last when they care too much about what other people think about them and base their life decisions on those reactions.
“If I have sex they gon call me a hoe!”
“If I don’t have sex they not gon like me!”
“I gotta get married!”
“If I don’t do it another chick will!”
“He gon leave!”
“If I say no he gon think I’m bitter!”
It’s a mental trap. Girl, be careful, and do what u need to do to pursue ur own happiness instead of worrying about trying to please everybody. And you can do all of this without having a nasty attitude.
It’s all about choices.
"Nice girl" = submissive girl to the vast majority of men. Being too submissive to the wrong man can have disastrous results, and unfortunately for women, most men are the wrong man.
It's the same for "nice guys" willing to do anything for a woman, he's gonna be food to the vast majority of women because most women aren't "nice girls".
Kindness alone will only lead to failure.
Who said the vast majority of women were "nice girls"?
What exactly is a nice girl? and what exactly makes them not have the same flaws as all other women?