Do nice girls finish last?

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Ugly women finish last. Average women finish in the middle of the pack and bad chics finish first

Average women win the most. A lot of men are afraid to approach the attractive woman, and view the average woman as easier, and assume she has a better personality.
 

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Hell according to how asshurt some posters were over Dominican chicks teaching dudes how to fukk, nice girls might not finish at all!

:palm:
But seriously, I don’t think “niceness” is a factor in men or women being successful in relationships. It’s ur choices in who u invest time in.

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Hell according to how asshurt some posters were over Dominican chicks teaching dudes how to fukk, nice girls might not finish at all!

:palm:
But seriously, I don’t think “niceness” is a factor in men or women being successful in relationships. It’s ur choices in who u invest time in.



please go deeper :patrice:
 

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No such thing as a nice girl unless you are literally talking about a child

Now, a square bytch might finish last right along with a so called ugly girl but it’s not like either is out here desolate and lonely. And if if they get that way it’s because of their attitude/personality and how they are moving.

Too many simps out here to let them completely fall and at a bare minimum, someone is trying to fukk; even if that someone is an individual who doesn’t align with their manufactured expectations
 

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Hell according to how asshurt some posters were over Dominican chicks teaching dudes how to fukk, nice girls might not finish at all!

:palm:
But seriously, I don’t think “niceness” is a factor in men or women being successful in relationships. It’s ur choices in who u invest time in.

And This is why I have no horror stories nor any ill will towards any of the women I've dealt with. I actually took time to vet who I was dealing with before hoping into anything serious.
  • How do you currently move in your daily life
  • How did you move in your daily life before I ever met you
  • How do you treat people
  • How do you treat yourself
  • What's your relationship like with your family
  • What are you working towards in life
  • What do you do with your free time
  • How does she treat me. (while this & a persons past can be faked for awhile ....unless she a superspy or some shyt, the above are not likely to be faked just for me)
Now these aren't explicitly asked questions, these are the type of things I observe before deciding what type of role she will play in my life.
You have folks skipping these things, getting burned, then showing up on youtube and the larger web shytting on the opposite sex.


CONCESSION:
  1. How folks act in divorce situations can be completely left of anything expected or shown prior.
  2. Depending on how young the person is they may not have a solid idea yet of what traits to (look for / avoid) in mates.








"Good girls" as I call them face similar issues as "nice guys" Yes sometimes these men and women are used or slept on...but often times these people overestimate the value of being "good" or "nice". It's not that those aren't admirable traits...its that alone that's not enough to make someone fall head over hills in love with them.

These people character isn't even as strong as they think either as it's pretty arrogant to feel entitled to a partner with multiple tangible qualities when the most prominent thing you have to offer is "niceness" or "goodness"

I was under the impression that their gripe was typically that folks complain about not finding a "nice" person to date ....then "ignoring" actually nice people they could date.
I.E. If folks never said "were are all the nice [insert opposite sex here] at" I don't think they would have the same gripes. (basically they are saying "if your looking for me I'm right here")
Now with that said that speaks to another of your points; that being nice alone won't cut it. Yes they want a "nice" person but in addition to other things.


Actually I'd expand on that "nice alone won't cut it" idea a different way.

I know girls who basically get up, goto work, goto lunch, maybe stop by the grocery store on the way home, then they are done for the day. Perfectly "nice" girls but you would never run into them.
The whole "night life" thing is only for a subset of people. Folks who operate outside of that type of rubric have a harder time finding mates.

I've advocated in the past for having multiple lanes.
  • "Night life"/online dating lane - For those folks who go out and actively pursue relationships
  • Family Arrangement dating lane - For folks who want relationships but don't want to deal with all the games of folks in the "Night life"/online dating lane.(community apparatus for families with adult children who've asked to be paired up)
  • College Marriages - For folks who want to marry people of a similar age and life path. (once out of school your dating pool is drastically reduced do to the age, work relation, and marital status of folks your typically around)
  • etc lane - For some other possible configuration.
 
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No because if you look good and be nice to dudes half of are gonna think “she wants my dikk”


If you’re a girl “finishing last” consider going to Korea for plastic surgery and stop taking hoe baths and take an actual shower with soap.
 

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Is there still nice girls that exist in the western world? I don't consider a bytch that may be nice in character but has a body count to be considered "Nice Girl"
 

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Nice is subjective, but anyone that fails to create boundaries between their well being and the well being of others or prioritizes others over themselves consistently, will finish “last” or have a hard time dealing with people in general.
 
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